Because I refuse to pay to become a gold member, I can't view pics. I am deemed to be a juvenile by SH even though I've been a member for nearly 10 years. There are other free sites with the same privileges as SJ gold membership. You wil find me there. Afrikaans Bi male looking for interesting no strings attached encounters male or female. Not into bdsm, pain or drugs, clean safe sex is a given. Due to the fact that basic members are severely restricted from interacting with other members on this once great group, I have basic membership here, so limited to the amount ot messages I can send per day and pics I can upload. Have full membership with swingsbothways.com. name Josa. You can find me there. Also, due to me being a basic member 90% of the people viewing me is called "someone", I cannot respond to you unless you message me, and there I have limited messages per day, so please bear with me I will respond.