I am an outgoing and fun chap.... and so say all of us... i am Black hair, brown eyes, wear a neatly trimmed beard and mustache. I take it i dress well. Gentle and have been in the lifestyle since 2011. I understand that woman are queen and what they say is cast in stone. Married? Yes i am. So i am not looking for another wife. I am looking for a fun buddy with benifits in a bassically the same needs. I am not pushy at all. I tend let the ones who play hard to get slip away bit that is just me as i respect a woman's decision. All the best. Xoxo Joe