First up - I am a chubby, older hairy, balding, greying, bearded bearish masculine silver daddy. If that is not your type - no need to continue reading. If it is, well...

Relaxed, friendly, easygoing, ideally looking for friends, or friends with benefits for me and/or my partner to play with when the need arises - but also have a braai without feeling obligated to add nookie to the menu.

I have also come to the conclusion that I like few things more than a NSA quickie where I can suck a cock, facilitate release and leave a guy satisfied. Only his moans and load required. Perfect for all those str8 guys in need of quick anon release from a great bj with nothing needed in return.

So... If you want to be sucked, rimmed, fingered, prostate massaged - I am your guy. I can keep going for hours. So, all those str8 guys who wonders how it feels - let me know if you want to experience pure bliss with no obligations...

Only requirement is cleanliness...

ALWAYS discreet, friendly and patient - in other words, ideal if it is your first time. Respects boundaries. Certainly not looking for a relationship. And certainly not promiscuous or a habitual player.

Feeling lonely, confused, or inquisitive?

In need to explore safely and discreetly?

Want to know if, and how, a man feels different to a woman?

Want to ask those questions you cannot ask anybody else?

Then I may be the guy to contact.

I will always be honest in answering (and that certainly does not mean I have all, or any, answers - but I will listen at least).

I am that private buddy, loyal friend, good listener, discreet lover and patient teacher. I prefer younger (or similar to me) guys and couples, with a brain, who want to explore their sexuality, but nothing is cast in stone.

Lastly, I intensely dislike pretentious people, and empty promises. Life is short - be you or be gone.