About Me & What I'm looking for and Not

If my profile’s not your vibe, no worries, just PLEASE block me. No hard feelings honestly !!

I’m straight, so bi guys-I won’t be replying to your messages, even when you offer me the best BJ i have ever had.(true story)

I’m here to have NSA fun , If you’re serious about meeting up for some playtime, say it. If you just wanna chat, that’s cool too-just let me know. Let’s be upfront from the start so we don’t waste time guessing what each other wants are. I’m open to ALL kinds of play.

Ideally, I’m looking for something exclusive with the right couple or woman or friend's with benefits? Sure, I’m flexible.

Got kinks? Me too !!! Let’s explore them together !!!

Abit about me

I’m shy at first, but I’m happy with a light chat or a deep, meaningful discussion. I don’t just fill the silence-I’m respectful, well-mannered, and definitely not pushy. I have never kissed and told it's part of my DNA.

I’m pretty chill and down-to-earth. Wild party days are behind me (engine room thirtys with Martin if you know you know) , I don’t drink (just wasn’t for me) and I have no problem hanging out with lifestylers who do. I still love to dance and lose myself in the music if it is good and I have no scarm I'll dance on my own like no one is watching.

I’m an active runner, and built like one too, BUT I'm not obsessed with it. So I do eat out a lot (pun intended)

Clean, discreet, and super respectful of this lifestyle-obviously.

Trust? That’s earned, not just handed over.

I do chat in the pool and I do have friends that I shoot the breeze with both male and female.

If you wanna chat, grab drinks or coffee, and see where things go-that’s cool by me. I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea that life.

And most importantly: I don’t care what Mr. says-I will always check with Mrs. first, ABSOLUTELY without question !!!!

And if you want to read more ...

I’m not homophobic, quite the opposite. I’ve been to G-A-Y London-Atomic Kitten were the live band that night. That’s how long ago it was. About 2000 excited gay men and one straight bloke from SA. My gay cousin and his boyfriend took me. It was a gas. I’m more accepting than you think, but that is NOT an open ticket. So please don’t assume just because I’ve stated my preferences that I'm homophobic. I been around gay men gay woman and even the curious.

The crude bit-stop reading now if you’re easily or miggt be offended.

Then there are the gents who want to chat me up because their wives don’t know… or worse, don’t put out. Guys, you’re more than welcome to say hi, but don’t expect me to take a “ full load” (yes, I’ve been offered) for you … unless your wife is a drop-dead model who actually puts out and is part of your team. Then, only then, I might consider or not consider taking one for the team.

Anyway, my friend 👀 offered me a strap-on, Steven, if I want to try him out, so 👀 is definitely first in line for that -so join the queue. (If you know you know)

Yes I can be checky and naughty 😜