Looking for playmate/s for high-fun low-stress sexual encounters

I like to keep it simple

I am 5"10' inches.  And a half.  My height is ... kidding.  That is my height.  I weigh 83 kg.  I'm reasonably fit, and getting fitter again.  I do take great pride in satisfying you, and of course taking my pleasure too.  If along the way you and I both explore new things or feel liberated and comfortable enough to let go completely, then that's like bonus time.  I've learned ejaculation control in pursuit of supreme pleasure.  Foreplay and taking it long interest me.  I've also helped several women to get comfortable with multiple orgasms, and a few of them I've helped to squirt. I dig it if you are multi-orgasmic, and squirting or creaming is like super bonus.  No pressure!  I would quite like to photograph what we do, though that's only a mild interest. 

I'm mainly straight, but a bit bi curious too.  Cos I've never tried, it will prob work best for me to play around with a MF couple. 

I'm mainly in Durban, but I get to CT three or four times a year for about a week or two at a time, and on a similar frequency I get to GP. My next trip to CT is from 21 Jan to 31 Jan.