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ElvisMp
2 days ago
Straight Black Male, 38
0 km · Paulshof

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That's what really sparked my interest in writing about this topic. There's a lot of us to be said about it. Women are victims of that and left no choice to choose mostly. It will get better if we keep talking and making awareness by sharing inputs and positive things

Well said and informed. Thanks for the insightful feedback. Much respect

Through this kind engagement we learn to respect each other and understand better

Quote by Luvmaking

The bottom line is. Respect everyone preferences and move is your personal preference and has nothing to do about races. If you don't like it move on to other sites that has racial preferences.

If I want to have a good time with any other race it's my choice if refused accept it and move on. Don't make this site an racial issue as we don't need it.

Luv making if you can't engage in subject please feel free to keep quiet than accuse me of turning this site into racial issues. Please 🙏🏾with all due respect don't do that

Definitely I'm with you there treat others with respect and be respected too.

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Well for us it is how you respect people. It is a choice. And if you are approached by a person that is not your choice, you can with respect decline and move on. People are on this site for their own reasons. For us we are here to experience and to have fun.

That's great to hear that respect in everything. Everyone has choice. At the end of it all it's all about having fun. You're taking a great to this lifestyle. Thanks for such great awareness to others with what you're sharing with us.

Groups are not so active people don't even share their stories or fantasies there

Black rings is it still a thing for Swingers ?

What are other ways or trends for swingers to recognize one another ?

I will listen on the radio 👂🏾

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You say "have your say" .... thing is, this has been raised multiple times over the years in the forum, yet there are some members who simply refuse to accept the concept of choice. And if anybody posts "their say" they get hammered from all directions.

Granted, there are of course those members who . . . . Oh why bother, people will think as they will

When people start to put labels on it e.g when someone approaches you respectful wanna know what you're Into and you start to throw insults and labels yet you find your partner approach them first.

Or maybe they should their own site where is "Racial barriers swingers only" ?

You compliment you get insulted or you approached by lady you respond the partner throw race card.

Quote by SDM

You say "have your say" .... thing is, this has been raised multiple times over the years in the forum, yet there are some members who simply refuse to accept the concept of choice. And if anybody posts "their say" they get hammered from all directions.

Granted, there are of course those members who . . . . Oh why bother, people will think as they will

I think it should be raised each and everyday for other to respect other people choice's and let other people's choice's don't stop others from being themselves too.

Awareness to both parties 💯👌🏾

Quote by Luvmaking

Personally it's every body choice or preference and not about racial barriers.

It's the same that some people prefer Lamb and not chicken. Ultimately it's everyone's you don't like it move on.

Once you start to compare people with chickens it's other thing too.

Everyone choice must be respected fully but let your choices disturb or be problem to others and be consider as how you treat others then you'll be treated too.

Where is it too much for the lifestyle this racial barriers?

Have your say and feel free let's talk about it openly so

The problem is one people will promise things they can't do or lies that I can do this and while they know very well their not cabaple of.

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Would like the wife to go with two guys but the site is full of BS,

Are you still up for it ?

Quote by KinkyJade

1.  a long queue of guys waiting in line to have their cocks pleasured ... then seeing how many i can pleasure before i tap out of exhaustion.   

2.  and with the same guys.... depositing the fruits of my labour into a jug to see how full i can make it.

3.  having sex, to any degree, in a glass box located on a very busy street ... they can see me... i can't see them..... bring out the exhibitionist in me.

4. teaching a female, of couple or single female, how to give her partner the most amazing, sensual bj, that she enjoys so much she does not want it to end.

5.  an old one, but still on my bucket list.... converting a bi curious female to be completely bi, by being her first bi experience from start to end... even if she had played around with a female before but would like the full experience of kissing, bj, fingers, and all those other experiences she is willing to let herself enjoy with me.   I love bi curious females, or just curios females who are open to ff play.

6. bukaki ... where i am the target for the endings only.. no touching me in any way.  Just wank off and come all over me while i suck a hard cock for your visual stimulation.... teasing you, making you want to be the one my mouth is pleasuring,... ive been told i give amazing head, and it is amazing to watch as well...

Have you reached your target in bucketlist

A woman with formal suit and short skirt and sexy lingerie underwear with show of cleavage and touch of lace Hmmmmm high heels 👠  especially older women milf 

I'm talking about you here? 


Please let's flirt in public place 

Racial profiling others it is not good at all especially in platform like this. Where we say we are 'Open minded people' it shouldn't be profile but discussed amongst swingers as preference while we are engaging. 


The way it is right just pure race issue thing that encourages 'racist comments'

Just my fantasy to watch two women pleasuring one another till the end 

if you say so but it's serious topic. Just we have to get all full facts and feelings from both side. 

Really put your best performance for them while they approached you Hmmmmm.  

I don't like the sound of that at all.