Hi everyone.

Please do not be offended if I do not reply, as I will not be able to reply to everyone. I will reply to those who interest me most first.

Please do not just 'like' my profile and expect that I am going to miraculously chat to you - I do not generally see these notifications - if you have read through my profile and meet my criteria and would like to chat to me then please either send me a proper message telling me about yourself or chat to me in the chatroom - it really is that simple.

I will NOT get involved with or chat to married/involved men playing without consent from their partners. Do not contact me I am NOT interested.

I do NOT have bbm, [removed], facebook or any other social media platform - and have absolutely no interest in doing so! Please do not ask!

I AM HERE TO HAVE INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATIONS - SHOULD YOU NOT BE ABLE TO PROVIDE SUCH PLEASE DON'T EVEN BOTHER. This of course does not mean that it cannot be sexual - there are decent ways of discussing sex and sexual preferences without it being crude!

I WILL ONLY CHAT IN THE CHATROOM - PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME PHOTO INVITES UNLESS REQUESTED OR DISCUSSED; AS I AM NOT INTERESTED. I will also only indulge a chat if you meet the following criteria:

AGE: 18 to 40 - I am not interested in older men.

STATUS: SINGLE - or a couple chatting TOGETHER.

These are the first 2 things that I look at - and it is at this stage that I make my decisions. I do not care what race you are - as long as you can provide me with intellectual, stimulating and fun conversation.

THANKING YOU IN ADVANCE FOR RESPECTING MY WISHES!!!!

To all my friends - my phone was stolen, I do still have the same number so please message me  with your name and profile name so that I can save your numbers. Thank you

Should you not meet my stipulated requirements/preferences and still choose to message me or chat in the chat room you will be ignored. I am tired of telling people that I am not interested in chatting for them to continue to try to convince me why I should chat to them - I know what I am looking for - I have my preferences just as everyone else has theirs - please respect this! 

Now that we have this out of the way - about me:

* I am large - with lots of bumps and lumps - I know that this is not for everyone and I respect this.

* I am very open minded and completely non judgmental and extremely kinky - I may be fascinated by a lot of things and enjoy discussing them and there is very little that would shock me - however this does not mean that I would actually do some of them. 

* I have children - they will always come FIRST - no matter what - should I need to cancel a meeting for any unexpected reason (parents will know how often unexpected things arise) - please be understanding and we can reschedule.

*I do not play/have sex with women - however I do not mind having a woman/women as part of the play session - and have recently become open to the possibility of using toys on each other or allowing a woman to play with me (as in oral) as long as she does not expect me to reciprocate in the same way. This decision has not been made lightly and I would expect any woman and her partner to respect whatever boundaries that I put in place - I am only willing to experiment to a certain degree, and as this would be new to me I am not sure how far I would be willing to go - but I do know that I will definitely not use my mouth or hands on a woman.

I would like to experiment with some light bondage play, only with a person/s that i get to know and can completely trust to respect my boundaries and requests. I am not a sub,  so pls do not try to dominate me, I will tell YOU what I want you to do to me and hopefully all will have fun.