Scoping things out and new to the swinger group scene. Very intriguing lifestyle and we can see the draw. So....... We dipping our toes in the water ever slowly. We mean this with the greatest respect, we do not cross the colour barrier. We are private people and stick to ourselves mostly. Confidentiality is key to us and for us. This may be different or selfish, Ms Dip is curious to feel the touch of a female and doesn't feel entirely comfortable or be pressured to return any favours, she is very much a go with the flow lady, so you never know, she may just take a step on the wild side....Mr Chip is straight so pls no male advances are permitted. We are shy and nervous and this is all very intimidating for us....Dutch courage would definitely be needed, lol 😆 social gatherings would be great, like one would say in plain lingo "braai and naai" we looking for friendship.....with benefits. Cleanliness and hygiene is important and the poop shoot is a no go zone she does not enjoy being deep throated but may surprise you....Apologies for anyone who doesn't like the requirement. Adventure is what we enjoy.