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CheapandEasy
1 day ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 38
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 39
0 km · Helderkruin

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Quote by Funlovincpl

Suneden is a great place, fantastic facilities and the accomodation is good, even camping. It is a naturist place, so no shagging under the trees, although plents swingers visit there. If you thinking about a visit, do it, you will love it. Go once and you will be hooked.

Great, we're going to book a few days there then. I've heard nothing but good things. We'll do our utmost best to avoid shagging under any trees.

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Hi lovely people. Anyone been to Sun Eden naturist resort, What's it like? Did you feel comfortable? How is the facilities and accommodation?

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Hi. My wife and I are looking for more information on glory holes. We're in JHB and aware of the AW Honeydew one. How does it all play out. Is it busy. Are there multiple rooms. Do you pay to enter. Is it clean. Would a couple be allowed or do you find it's mainly gay or bisexual men. Is there space for a guy to put his hands through and touch. What's the best time to go and would a normal day time visit work.

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Hi all. Can anyone recommend a place/hotel that has a private jacuzzi (with a view would be great). Johannesburg, Roodepoort. But happy to travel

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Hi all, my wife and i now have another little one who's 20 months old. We'd like to get back into the lifestyle slowly, but naturally all our fun will need to be during the day. And can't be at our home yet because it's the only place our daughter feels comfortable away from both of us, so she'll be there with her nanny.

The question, anyone know of any decent bed and breakfast, or hotels. Where we can sneak someone in easily. We're now in the Roodepoort area.

PS: no, not your home folks. Nice try.

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Hi all, my wife and i now have another little one who's 20 months old. We'd like to get back into the lifestyle slowly, but naturally all our fun will need to be during the day. And can't be at our home yet because it's the only place our daughter feels comfortable away from both of us, so she'll be there with her nanny.

The question, anyone know of any decent bed and breakfast, or hotels. Where we can sneak someone in easily. We're now in the Roodepoort area.

PS: no, not your home folks. Nice try.

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Hi. Anyone know of any decent hotels in Jhb where a couple can easily sneak a 3rd into their room for some fun? We were thinking fire and ice at Melrose arch. Or one of the Monte casino hotels. 

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Sure I'm in agreement partly. I believe that regardless if you're a guy or a unicorn, you should be treated the same way, fairly. Food, drinks at the hotel room... The couple pays. Assuming they set it up. If it's dinner at a restaurant before. I see no reason why the costs can't be split. Hotel room included. I do think that each situation is different each time and will need to be thought out and negotiated though. 

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Heya. Definitely appropriate to split the hotel, drinks costs.... New toys or lingerie you've purchased is debatable. I wouldn't agree to that. 


But shared things like hotel and food/alcohol. Absolutely. Just bring it up prior to meeting and not as the bill arrives. We'd be more than happy to split costs. 

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Hey all..... 

Do private parties still happen? Is winter killing the mood? Are SH peeps more club orientated? 

C&E


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I feel the need to respond to this for some absurd reason. So yes. I wouldn't approach ladies or couples at a club without getting some indication that they are interested. Reason being...... Some clubs have hundreds of single men. If every second man who was interested approached us its safe to say we wouldn't be going back there again. That being said, it's also safe to assume that everyone is aware of your intentions at a swinging club so you don't need to worry too much about that.

To take a step back to the original question. What are ladies rules...... What that essentially means is that ladies control the ebb and flow of the situation, nothing happens unless they are comfortable and secure in what is happening.

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Hey all,

Odd and somewhat pointless question around this sites functionality. We were wondering, are there any users on here who actually use the below features:

Profile Verification (We've interacted with a lot of people *yes in the outside world, and only have 1 verification, so it seems as if no one uses this).

Forums: These don't seem that well frequented. 

Friends: I don't think we use this at all, despite having a number of friends on there.

Encounters

C&E

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So after the fifth non-arrival/ignore in a row we're asking ourselves wtf? Either you want to meet, or you don't. We don't get it. Anyways enough of a rant. If there are any couples out there who have played with a single white gent, good looking, age below 38, dark hair, decent shape (GI Joe not required), who actually arrives when he says he will. Please pop us a message. Same goes for guys. If you're serious. And we haven't spoken before (I assume if we have and haven't met or played yet that you're not our type) pop us a message.