Single white (bicurious) female looking for nsa playmates. I am also in the bdsm lifestyle. I live life.

I can host and I also often travel to Jhb/Pta

I am ethically non-monogamous.

I am not on this site for excitement. I am seeking genuine connections in the LS.

That being said, being in the swinger lifestyle is a 'lifestyle' where certain protocols and dynamics matter. Women in this lifestyle are not a gratis option for prostitutes or blow-up dolls.

Introductions matter to me -- whether it's a smart one-liner or something longer...

I am not currently a paid member so if i don't respond to a message, it's not because i'm rude🤩... or maybe I am, especially if your intro is "can I suck your hollie?"🤔

Please don't ask me what i like sexually -- it's in my profile... or at least the basic list is😈. We'll get there as we chat.

I do read profiles. I am sapiosexual... and probably also 'beardOsexual'... definitely gastro-sexual...

I am outgoing, very witty and have a wicked sense of humour. I am widely-read and widely travelled. I am an intellectual and an optimist and I believe karma is a bitch.

Oh, and one last thing (probably of many last things)... don't ask me if I shave my pussy. That is just blatantly insulting. We are in a lifestyle where most women do. If you really want to know, or make sure you don't eat bush, then be subtle about it. Make a comment like, oh i don't know... "I'd love to rub my face in your naked pussy until I'm wet all over?" I think most girls will catch the hint.