Well  it's never happened to us but that is one reason we dont send face pics.

So many photos on this site are clearly false.

Some insist but that ends further correspondence. 

Plus we know of a bloke who was blackmailed after sending seriously hard core photos of him showing his face.

We had the same issue in Gauteng,  went to a club or two but did not find what we were looking for.

We been playing for a while.

Strange that the people that " dislike " the most are often the most persistent.

Getting decent blokes who meet our requirements is easier said than done, most who reply seem not to have absorbed what you looking for regards the sexual orientation and size of nale equipment. 

Quote by haveusbc
talk about trying to defend the indefenceable(sic)....
i find strange that people even need to debate the issue...no condom no play...its not even up for debate with us...
but we all have different viewpoints...but we cant have our own facts lol

 Same here, no glove = no love.

But suspect a few who have replied to our adverts, which is not run of the norm type of play as not everyone is into what we do, so when the playtime draws near they chickened out, so they pull the no condom play thing as a way to save face.

I agree... we posted this question after a bloke at the very last second informed us despite it on our profile being a open requirement he wont use them... implying do we think he has a STD.

Well we never got together  as we play as safe as we can.

As you say each to their own........... but sorry for us no condom is no play, for you, well the worlds your oyster to do what ever you wish.

Well yes each to his own, us as a couple will not play with those who dont use condoms, as you say each to his own, screening is only as safe as the last person they slept with and the window period for antibody build up to indicate a positive read, in that window period you can unknowingly infect anyone you have sexual conduct with.

but maybe go read this and numerous medical articles............. for us as a couple biggest worry is HIV, the rest yes we worry about as well butt generally the others are treatable, but still we try lessen our chances of getting any by using condoms.

Nope, but as sure as hell using a condom for genital sex lessens the risk.

Quote by 6BeautyBeast9
We do not play with condoms. We believe condoms provide people with an absolute false sense of security! If a lady gives a gent a BJ or a gent muff's a lady, their bodily fluids mix! So what is the purpose of using a condom then? In this lifestyle, it is EXTREMELY dangerous to have a false sense of security.

 Well somehow the greater majority of HIV researchers tend to disagree with your way of seeing things, but then you are welcome to your opinion and manner of playing.

we keep private lives and swinging separate. We know that a couple we know swing, yet we dont mention we do as with us the two are separate parts of our lives

Quote by haveusbc
not really wanting to  tell people what to do...but you are putting your selves at high risk if you are having sex with strangers and even with people you know with out a condom...we would also prefer not  to use condoms....but not even going to think about doing that....
people have this idea that it cant happen to them....

We fully agree which is why we a condom using couple, but have had a few trying to convince us different, so just seeing what is opinion on the subject.

Well honestly we don't want to play with condoms.

Mrs loves feeling cum, so she lets the bloke after taking the condom off finish on her boobs or over her back etc, never inside but on top.....lol.  

So we use them as the risks are too high without.

Rather play safe than regret not having done so.

What's thoughts on using or not using condoms when playing with others.

We are NON NEGOTIABLE on there use.

Others thoughts are welcome on this subject. 

Quote by Simple4me
Sorry the large or large plus is a requirement.

 Lol....last time you fitted perfectly.

Quote by orgasm21
ek het n venue en stel belang

 But 834km away...

Take a look at our profile........... my Mrs depending on who and what likes bi play.

Quite a few blokes who do not measure up to our advertised requirements for male member size get snotty and sarcastic, as if that will help their case, its what we like and want, so why should we change this, the result is Mrs leaves the checking of replies to me, but she enjoys the other parts of the site. Also learnt to have a dedicated pay as you go number for this site......... so you dont get hassled late at night. We wait a while before making contact as the repeat message types insisting is also not for us as we not interested in a friendship outside the play room.

Another interesting fact is many of the blokes answering our bi male adverts profiles dont even mention they may be bi or open to it.

Depends on what you looking for, Mrs and I both like large cocks, she gets turned on watching up close how it goes in me, plus plays with it afterwards so size is the most important aspect for us, to see what you packing you need to see a photo, so yes we enjoy looking at cock pics first before considering the rest, regardless of how stunning the person looks may be, if he has not got a large one we will pass.

We a real couple exactly as profile says, but we only play with males. 

But so many who are not even close to ones requirements ask and get offended when politely have it pointed out they dont match our clear requirements.

Our thing is my wife likes watching bi men do me, then has them do her. But she only enjoys extra large equipped men who are few and far between. But if a bloke is extremely huge she is willing to have him to herself while I watch, but he must be painfully large as she puts it.

We comfortable in this time out fun but battle to find genuine male play mates.

Same here.

We wonder if most people actually bother to read before replying, our profile plus adverts are painfully accurate as to what we looking for, yet 95% of  applicants are not even close. Wonder if it goes for others as well? And some get upset when you point out they dont fit, excuse the pun as to what we looking for, or see a polite reply as a offer to enter a debate that maybe we can change our minds to what turns us on. But still we try reply to all who send us messages.

Would help if people read the advert posted, we ask for a specific thing or kink, yet dozens reply who are not close to what we asking for.

Privacy is acceptable, but the pure poor manners of 98% of anon adverts who post dogging locations yet never show up, post adverts and never reply on the advert.

Plus who is going to get intimate with someone you have zero background to, not us.

Hopefully the anon option will be totally removed in time to come as this would assist the admins..

Bob969 we agree with you, anon should simply be stopped as a posting method, for all the points you mention.

So far yes its a total waste of time, maybe they can do away with the anon advert to make this site work, who would have an intimate moment with a person person who you know as Mr Anon who posts I am looking for a ####!

Adventurous and desperate are worlds apart.

What do people think about anonymous adverts, especially those with zero background to them.

So far we found the ones in the dogging section without profile names a waste of time.

Wondering what others think?