I am an intelligent, very fit man who is comfortable with his body and his mind. I am at a place in my life where I choose to explore outside of the perceived boundaries of my marriage (you need to be comfortable with this too). Due to my situation discretion is paramount and I will treat you similarly. This is a new route for me and I am excited but apprehensive. I am my own boss so can be very flexible during the day time and traveling/overnight with some notice.

Im married and quite happily so on most levels. I am however looking for a likeminded discreet lady who is also looking to explore herself and her sexuality within a safe and mutually considerate environment. This is not about casual sex, or perhaps I should say not only about that. I would like us to create an environment away from our daily lives wherein anything we agree, goes and we expand our physical and sexual horizons. there may be spirituality involved via tantric exploration, it may be role play, different positions, venues or just intimacy and chats - but nothing is taboo, everything can be considered and discussed and if mutually acceptable, we can physically explore boundaries. ?Physically I dont mind how old you are or about your hair or eye colour but you definitely have a 'way' about you, a careful confidence and an urge to explore, push boundaries and discover more about yourself. You are probably not hectically overweight but feel sexy and comfortable with yourself. You can chat and are prepared to be very discreet. You are either married/in relationship or else single but not looking for a full on relationship