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BabygirlXoxo
2 hours ago
Bisexual Black Female, 22
0 km · Gauteng

About

A HEADS UP
I rarely message first. I’ll look at your profile, read your About, maybe even like it but I won’t be the one to message first. So if you want to connect, you must message me first. ✧*ੈ✩‧₊˚

Also, I don’t want to chat for weeks and weeks, I’m not here for long and will be going back to the boring Free State, so I wanna make it count. ♡₊˚

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR
I’m drawn to deep, sensual connections, especially with bisexual women aged 22 to 35 and MF couples looking for a bisexual female who value intelligence, emotional depth, and unapologetic pleasure. Yes, I do have experience. ♡₊˚

I’m also open to emotionally grounded, respectful DOMINATE men between 25 and 35. If you’re over 40, be decent. Bring presence, clarity, and that calm, grown-man energy. No smooth-talking nonsense, please. 🦢・₊

Currently curious about MFM dynamics. No experience yet, but definitely interested and open.

Mutual interest and attraction matter most. Chemistry can’t be forced. It’s the foundation of anything real and fulfilling.

At the end of the day, I’m here to give a 10/10 experience. Something memorable, connected, and deeply satisfying. ✧*ੈ✩‧₊˚

EROTIC ORIENTATION
My desires live in the realm of hedonism, psychological play, and the aesthetics of dark, intense longing. ♡₊˚

I’m especially drawn to damsel dynamics, being held, restrained, teased, and immersed in a space that feels dangerous but is deeply rooted in trust and consent.
Softness with pressure. Power with care.

If that sounds confusing, we probably won’t connect, and that’s okay. 🦢・₊

INTENTIONS AND BOUNDARIES
I’m not here for endless chatting, flaky energy, or meaningless flings.

I believe in depth, not distraction. I keep my energy sacred, and I only give it where it’s mutual and intentional. ♡₊˚

Let’s be honest: fun with someone you’re not attracted to is charity work, not chemistry.

BEFORE YOU MESSAGE ME
Real talk I only respond to people I can realistically meet. Unless you’re offering flight tickets or sending a chauffeur, don’t hold your breath. ✧*ੈ✩‧₊˚

I don’t host or accommodate, just so we’re clear.

I can only send five messages every 24 hours, so let’s respect each other’s time and keep things meaningful. ♡₊˚

Your profile should have the basics:
• Clear, recent full-body photos..no heavy filters, just you as you are 🦢・₊
• A real sense of who you are..vouches or references? Bonus points ♡₊˚
• Proper communication.. if you start with “wyd” or “hey sexy,” skip me. Talk with intent or don’t bother. ✧*ੈ✩‧₊˚

A FEW CLARIFICATIONS
I don’t have racial preferences, so don’t ask. It’s weird. ♡₊˚

Yes, I’m a size queen, 18cm and up.
It takes great length to get through this ass mentally, spiritually, and physically, so if you’re not swinging, baby don’t even start ringing. 🦢・₊

If thick, curvy women aren’t your thing, that’s okay, just keep it moving respectfully.

If we’ve chatted before and you flaked or I ghosted, that was your shot. Please don’t circle back. ♡₊˚

Friend requests will only be accepted from people I’ve actually met in real life.

So to those I’ve already met or had play dates with before — even if it was on my old account — feel free to send a request. I’ll know who you are. ♡₊˚

WHERE I THRIVE
I thrive in spaces rooted in respect, humour, real desire, and clear boundaries.

Add in good weed, sex that feels like poetry, and food that actually slaps? Now we’re talking. ♡₊˚🦢・₊✧*ੈ✩‧₊˚

If you understand how those three things deepen connection — we might just vibe.

Based in Heidelberg, but I’m happy to travel for the right people. I’m most familiar with areas like Rosebank and Norwood much easier for me to reach since I don’t drive 😉

Interests

Safe Sex
Straight sex
Threesomes

Seeking

Male
Female
Couple
Age: 18 - 45
Distance: 159 km