Hey there, curious? Me too

I've been in the lifestyle for the last 5ish years. My roles have evolved though the years and I find myself most suited in my current solo-poly place.

I enjoy having long term friends with benefits arrangements, kitchen table poly also works well. I enjoy the bedroom antics but also getting to know the people I play with.

As with every one on here it seems, I have a professional life that I keep separate and for that reason value discretion. However I equally value respect, honesty and trust, health above all else.

I split my time between durban, cape town, and internationally so may not always be available at the drop of a hat unfortunately.

In the bedroom I have found myself been drawn to hedonism recently and enjoy hondonistic dominant roles in play. I'm quite experienced in bdsm play, namely restraints and tease, I love using toys, my hands, and implements to bring about unique exciting play.