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So, we are curious as to what the most guys/girls are you had sex with on the same day ? Please state your gender and then how many in one day...

Its 3 morning afternoon and evening I am male

So its basically a swamp here, noted, dissapointing, but guess I was living in fantasyland expecting something else, so on me.

Does anyone actually read profiles here or it just a swamp of disrespect?

Bearly here, and have to ask....

Does ANYONE here actually read profiles, or just a total lack of respect?

Be professional, actually be present as management, staff, not patrons. If you too busy in the bedrooms yourselves, who is doing the job making sure rules followed, and patrons safe?

And actually apply the rules and standards/ethics of conduct etc claim to promote and enforce. As a mom, Im looking for a safe place to play, provide what you advertise/promise, especially at the prices charging.

Edit: And seriously, make EVERYONE follow the rules, no special treatment for your friends/big spenders and follow the rules yourselves owners, set the standard, dont abuse your position of power.

Edit 2: To venues and patrons. Its about providing a venue to hang out and be safe. If money is being exchanged with an actual expectation of sex with strangers, then the patrons attitude is one of attending a brothel and prostitution. Nobody has any right to demand anybody interacts with them or anyone else at the venue, if you think that ppl have rights over others like that, to make demands and expect things like that of others, you're talking lvls of sex trafficking so get your heads out your asses with your complaints about so called clicky attitudes and whatnot.

Quote by MuslimFemme

Where can I go for a sensual massage in JHB?

You more than welcome to contact me Randburg.

Deep tissue to Tantra

insha'Allah

Hi ! Looking for an email address for admin please.

Hi everyone, mainly looking for woman between ages 18 - 45, keen to try anything. I am a fit white 21 year old looking to help out the women in need of a decent erotic orgasm, whether it be public fun or private I’m ready stick my dick in any of your holes and if you want anything extra I’m 6’4 and have big hand for some gentle teasing or rough pussy play. I’m ready and waiting to pump my young cum deep inside and females on this app. If your boyfriend/husband wants to watch then let him but I’m only interested in women. Enjoy the rest of your day and I hope I’ll be hearing from you

Hi guys, beware of fake profile of James901. He claims that he's coming to Sun City tomorrow. The pictures on the profile don't match those he sent on

How astronomically few ppl on swinger sites like SH have any continental clue what swinging actually is.

Ppl somehow think they visiting a escort service site, with services are free, and to be supplied on demand.

And the sheer amount of ppl using it as a cheating platform, even fake cpls, where both married to someone else and playing together without consent.

And then somehow, its we who get the stick, for ruining things for others, apparently wasting 'everyones time', not being true swingers cause we not interested.

Quote by Fun4all007

I’m fairly new here, so please help me. When I send an introductory message to a lady or couple (only after matching her/their preferences), why the silence? I can see that you’ve read my message, so please reply! If you had a look at my profile and you don’t like what you see, then please say so, at least then I know not to bother you again. I just think it’s utterly rude not to reply. Say your say, I’m a big boy, and will take no offence!

Note that the site actually allows for asetting that msgs from profiles of the chosen type/s are 'blocked' from msging, should the ppl not be interested in hearing from them. Unfortunately, the setting doesnt inform those sending the msg that the profile in question has activated this option and they even still have full access to view the profile etc, the profile just never gets your msg, so would never answer you.

Oh, and yes, unfortunately, many get so unindated with msgs, especially from single males, it just isnt possible to reply to all of themas just do not have the time etc. You should see the inbox of single woman and how they get swamped, as well as in the chatroom, good gawd, almost fell of my chair at one coffee meet we had where lady shared it, for us to see.

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Hi guys

You can change your settings under Privacy so that you only receive contact from couples or ladies and you can set it so that only friends can comment on your media

I hope it helps in making your experience better.

Like I said, we dont want this option, as do want to interact with single guys for mrs experience, so the option that had left us with in the past is to leave pics of me off, which we now considering again after this little test to see again.

The issue is how much pics of me changes the dynamic of who we get attention from. Even the likes, comments on my pics is almost exclusively single guys, a shared experience with many couples we've met here in Durbs over the years, so whats really the point?

As the very valid concern on dodgy husband run couple profiles, we've found the single biggest give away being the profile description with 2nd being nature/tone of the pictures posted, as we come across many profiles of the conern mentioned that certainly has pics of husband too, not only the mrs.

Well, call me fickle I suppose, but I can certainly see all the attention from almost entirely just single guy profiles being a put off for many wrt posting husband pics.

Can certainly understand it being a put off for many and have seen mentioned even on a few single men profiles having to state they are not seeking men, even when says straight.

We had pics before, got unwanted attention. Tried it again now, and immediately, unwanted attention again. We dont want to click the ban/block single guy profile access in its entirety option as do enjoy odd experience for mrs, but when the inbox gets unindated by men now msging for me instead, simply because pics of me, its enough to make us think of taking my pics off again, for the significant improvement on focus groups we get attention from.

Hi, I am new to this lifestyle although my partner has been in it before.

We are looking forward too meeting like minded people who aren't afraid of a little bdsm...

We are interested in other couples who are just excited about us in finding pleasures through our bodies with new experiences.

Quote by Deee

I'm going this Saturday to wash my eyes

Did you go? How was it?

We must name and shame them. And those who don't show up please

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So Friday night we went to FH and saw dey have something new door signs that you hang outside the door of the room you playing in we found it interesting and really loved it it's such an awesome idea

But we did notice a bunch of single guys just checking every sign it was funny

Some of the signs

single male welcome

single female welcome

Couple welcome

Privacy please

Would love to see clubs maybe do something wer you wear bands that show what you open to on the night so it will make it easier to approach the right couples or singles

Wow I should revisit that place 🤤🤤👌

I don’t upload my face pics anywhere that I can’t control the privacy settings.

For communication I have a “punting “ phone.

Separate phone with a pre rica’d sim , and all of its own social (spare , , facebook , etc)

I’ve had encounters with “fake cops” who attempt to extort

Any pic sharing is done as view once

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I would class that as a dangerous ridiculous BDSM attempt with a fake Dom and fucking stupid woman who put herself in a perilous situation hoping for a “50 Shades” moment. Not sure what kind of woman you’re finding but they are fucking idiots. No talk about rules, limits, safety and then restraints and choking. I can’t decided who’s the bigger idiot. You or her. It’s a tough choice. Hmmm 🤔

While as a fantasy story this sounds delicious in reality this is so dangerous for her and stupid of you to attempt it. I have heard to many horror stories about things that have gone wrong for both men and women that have done this sort of thing. From assault to to forced drug use to one unfortunate young woman having her nipple bitten right off.

So I’d call this stupid. Not BDSM, in the kink world, real Doms and Subs have rules and we follow and respect the rules and roles of the other. This is bloody madness. 🙄

I fully understand and appreciate your response. Reading your comment now in hindsight I do see that there are many areas of concern.

I will be taking this date off the menu and will rectify .

once upon a time I used to frequent ster kinekor nouveau at the zone in rosebank.

It was always empty ! they used to show foreign films and had a luxury vibe.

Lots of dates have sucked me off in those seats , I’ve even gotten on my knees and eaten a pussy under a skirt a few times.

the key is to wear track pants ! Easy access . If the blower is shy , then just cover their head with a jacket and carry on watching the movie !

and stash a few wet wipes in your pocket

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So The Nicol still the place to be?

I’ve been here recently , thru booking dot com you can get an apartment that has self check in with a code on a lock box. Also the lift goes straight from the basement to the rooms and skips reception.

Bed is the right size for 4 .

Quote by Jameson1

Lisa's lounge would be a place. R350...to enter and you chill in the lounge and have a few drinks while you watch porn on the screens....and if you are up for it use one of the rooms!!!

Is this the one in cpt ?

Anytime daytime or on an event day ?

I’m planning a trip to Cape Town between 10 and 13 Nov.

I will be staying at a penthouse unit in cbd and will have a bi girl with me

Keen to meet couples or single girls who want to play.

I frequent spa’s that have a sauna / jacuzzi with great success.

I’ve also considered the karaoke bar ! But the K-pop music was a bit too catchy for me to concentrate on getting hard .

I clean shave my balls and pubes with a razor.

I will ask my dates for shave ahead of our meet and usually pack a fresh disposable in my “date bag” incase she didn’t .

I also ask them “what type of face do you want to sit on tonight ? Shaven or a beard with a little bit of grey in it”

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Try Breena b&b in Edenvale

I’ve fucked an escort here once, it was a horrible fuck but the venue was amazing! Especially the garden

I’ve done some late night call centre shifts , watching some porn on the “office server” I’ve squeezed a nut through my jeans followed by a quick bathroom break clean up.

Also had a regular wank in the stalls, to this day I wonder if anyone saw me

not on topic

but when I was younger I had a mixed friend group, and as most of these groups go you tend to crush on friends of your friends.

so we at a club and im sitting on the couch in earshot of a groups of these girls

Suddenly I hear about a date that the one girl went on to nandos. And how afterwards this guy started to finger her on the way home. and how the residue chilli on his fingers started to burn this girls pussy.

So all the girls are listening and I loudly ask “so what happened next” as I was very in grossed in the story.

The shudder I felt as I was given the cold shoulder when all these girls huffed, once they knew I was listening ! Priceless

Quote by We4Fun

we have been trying to find a couple where both are bi, and not bi curious.....but we thinkith that its a fairy tail

That’s a fantasy I’m really open to