Hangout places ???

Hi, all we an couple and we enjoy social hotwife fun ( where we meet dignified cute guys, sexy teasing , totally love guys making friends and drinking , dancing or meeting swinging couples . We looking for exciting places Durban till North Coast, up to Billito. We like hangout places , like quite pubs , bars , and dancing. Also looking for us and friend to hangout , quite places where alittle more can be expressed or dogging places . We enjoy the build up and enhancing moments before the action.