Durban and north surrounding areas

We are very new and would like to meet couples to help us out , Looking to enjoy the weekend / week ahead venturing into this exciting lifestyle and finding nice exciting hangouts , where we can teased and be teased. Wife does like guys attention within closed doors eg pubs / night clubs Please tell us where are exciting place where to chill out , We have been to Nude Beach - Totally no action , Virginia Beach - Another dead place , Ballito Bay side parking area -Was ok but not what we expected, Please help out where i can make this venture more exciting for wife , and guys thanks for the stories on how youll play, wife really likes it .