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nawtyjake

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Straight Middle Eastern Male, 55

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Warming the Bed

28 Mar 2013

hmmmm, PIB, you got that right! we've been using our electric blanket for 7 years now, and its still going strong, every winter it comes out, and we love it. it's one of the best feelings to experience on a cold wintery night. for those of you who havent as yet used one, no matter how eloquently PIB described it, only experiencing it will do justice to its awesomeness. another 1 for me is a car heater on a very cold day/night. absolutely free, but so amazing that sometimes, i dont even wanna leave my car!!! lol

Warming the Bed

27 Mar 2013

I find this very interesting... A topic that definately requires some attention. All you say is true, eccept for one thing - The cheaters. I can not see how "swinging" is moral yet cheating is not. Sex with anyone other than your partner for whom you confessed your comitment (your spouse), is infact technically immoral. The thing is that times have changed and humans in general are not as religeous as we once were. I am involved, not married but have a girlfriend. Unfortunately she is more serious than I am. She hears wedding bells, I do not. Having said that, she is a great girl. I love her company, I enjoy having her around, appreciate everything she does for me, etc, etc, etc... I do not however enjoy having sex only with her. I get bored very easily in relationships so the only way any relationship will last with me, is when I keep myself entertained with other females.
So yes, I cheat... But I am a great guy. I treat her with respect, I give her all she can dream of, I have the deep feelings one needs for a relationship to work, etc... But I also enjoy the company of other females. My girlfriend will never swing, so what else is there to do if she does not fully "satisfy" me.
So in short... Sex is as important to us as food! We love it, and will always throw "old fashioned" morals out the window in the never ending quest for "kinkier" sex. Some swing, some cheat, some masturbate, some do it with animals, some , etc... All immoral at the end of the day. We know this, yet we still do it - Why? because humans by nature are not monogimous creatures. I for one believe that a man can love his wife and have sex with other woman at the same time.
Food for thougth... (and here comes the fight - lol)...

for what its worth, i fully agree with this post. sometimes all you want is to be a little naughty, thats it. not break up a marriage and hurt or destroy peoples lives.

Warming the Bed

20 Mar 2013

hi fun, is this only for females and couples? jake

Warming the Bed

25 Feb 2013

if we can pull this off ok cape town pervs. i am available mon to fri 8 to 4pm. anywhere within a 100km radius of cape town. i wont mind paying for a room at a hotel if we can have some fun. i'm not talking about a quicky ok, i mean mutual, sensual satisfaction. i'm between tygervalley and seapoint everyday.. hit me up if you're female or a couple.

Warming the Bed

16 Feb 2013

Quote by Pussinboots1
is just wearing a *Habit* okay or does the lady have to be real NUN ??? @ NJ

hmmm, i suppose a real nun would be 1st prize wink

wink

, but i guess a habit wearing hottie might just be a close 2nd!
its probably the taboo that attracts me so much?

Warming the Bed

15 Feb 2013

i have had this fantasy forever.............. i want to seduce and make love to a nun! i know, i know.... that could be a bad HABIT, but still..lol

Warming the Bed

15 Feb 2013

Quote by LeeEC
People are telling jokes? What the hell is wrong with people!?
Why the hell would you come up with jokes after someone lost their life?!
This is like that thing I heard on the radio a couple of weeks back - some guy fell to his death (not immediate) and the person trying to keep him alive said that a bunch of people stood around and took pictures and twittered and all sorts but not ONE person bothered to actually offer their help!!
What the F@#$%^ is wrong with people!!???

yep........ the jokes on twitter as well. In any other setting it would've been hilarious, but a beautiful person lost her life here, so this is not the time or place for it. And LeeEC, thats human nature. The advent of cell phones with cameras has turned everyone into papprazzi. you see it everywhere, road accidents, people tripping and falling in public(old people mostly), thats how it is. no use getting upset, all we can do is to try and do the right thing when and if the occasion arises.
Its not all bad though, there are many many good people out there, unsung heroes. so i think, overall, there's a lot more good people than bad people.

Warming the Bed

15 Feb 2013

whatever the courts findings..........his life is destroyed. if he's guilty of murder, he'll get what he deserves in jail. if he's innocent, he'll live with guilt and regret for the rest of his life. the sporting world is vicious, i know! so his career is over, all it takes from a fellow competitor is to mention this to him on the track before the race, and he's done for. again, i know what i'm talking about, i used to be a provincial athlete. Reeva was such a beautiful, kind woman, it's really sad that her life and all she worked for was so abruptly ended. one person's minute of madness can destroy so many people. my prayers and sympathy goes out to their respective families, both sides will suffer. oscar lost his mother at the age of 15, so clearly there's issues there as well.

Warming the Bed

14 Feb 2013

his girlfriend. What a terrible day for her family, and for him, whatever the circumstances. sadness all round, and everyone who knows them will be reminded of this terrible happening every year on valentine's day.

Warming the Bed

14 Feb 2013

Quote by Pussinboots1
What is the point of Valentines Day?
I`m sure it's great for those couples that are just so in love.
But what about those who are left out?
What about those who are pushed aside and forgotten?
What about those who are not considered pretty/handsome/sexy enough?
What happens when every one around you gets something from a special person, and all you get is ignored?
TODAY you are not alone,I am here!
TODAY I would like to wish each and everyone who has NO-ONE to say *I love you*
To Have a HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!
I am sending virtual hugs to each and everyone.

hmmm, i like hugs, even virtual one's. when they come from someone as hot as you, it just makes it so much yummier!!!
thank you............. kiss

kiss

happy valentines everyone.

Warming the Bed

12 Feb 2013

Every valentines night, my wife and i go somewhere for dinner, after which we go somewhere outdoorsish to make out which normally leads to very hot sex. Last year it was the parking at greenpoint lighthouse, this year it's gonna be signal hill parking. Just saying................. wink

wink

Warming the Bed

6 Feb 2013

i love kissing. i think kissing has come to be regarded as more intimate than sex by many, i cannot imagine why though. to me it's the lead up to foreplay, an intrinsic part of foreplay, an absolute hot addition to sex and most definitely a comfortable way of ''afterplay''. passionkiss

passionkiss

Warming the Bed

1 Feb 2013

Quote by Rob_69
Ah Gerrie you make me laugh
I think nawtyjake NEEDED to send PIB a kiss after that silly self-degrading comment - since it's perfectly clear to all of us that PIB is one gorgeous lady.
But in terms of my "mwah" allergy....
It's all about context you know:
If some random person who has never met or talked to me sends me a picture of his bits and a great big "Mwah!"
Well you know the thing is - I believe you gotta be REAL on this site. People here are not JUST going to interact with you in this false little virtual bubble. Most of you are coming on here to connect so you can MEET and hopefully Play with these people. (and those who aren't here to meet, are very open about the fact that they only want chat)
BUT We are not a bunch of teenagers chatting on mixit.
The truth is I do not know of a single actual REAL human adult male, who is straight, who actually goes around saying things like "mwah!"
I mean, I really would prefer a man who regularly says MANLY things like "Argh!" (pirate style) and "Grrr" before I'd be interested in "Mwah"! It's a complete turn off to get virtual air kisses from a guy - immediately I think "immature closet gay" whether it's really true or not, I'm still put off. I don't know why men think women want them to be girly. I like my men hairy and manly and gruff and rugged, without a mwah in sight!
BTW If you're not planning on meeting me (our profile is very clear that, that is our intention) then you shouldn't be sending me messages anyway. And if you're not a teenager then you shouldn't be acting like one. Btw - I'm quite clear about not wanting to interact with teenagers either!
Seriously Gerrie, would you walk into a bar, see a hot chick, and whip out your bits wave them at her and shout Mwah!
I mean that's ridiculous behaviour right? You could get arrested for that.
SH is a PUBLIC PLACE, just like a bar - that kind of behaviour gets EXACTLY the same reaction from me, as it would if someone did it to my face IRL. I call the men in white coats and have them carted off... Or sometimes I just spank them.
Depends on how I feel.... and whether I have a paddle handy :twisted:

Being a real man I'm going to ignore everything you said and just do the opposite of what you want and say mwah and pull it out in a public place saying it :sticky::wanker:
You guys are hilarious. anyways, i'm not going to make any excuses for the big fat mwah i so lovingly shared with PIB.... i thought it was yummy :-)

Warming the Bed

31 Jan 2013

Quote by lyndirt
Why leave it just for the guys. I will force my young girl to fingerfuck her cunt and asshole for you while you all smother her face and in her mouth with all your cum. Thats a better idea i think.

errrrm, i'm brand new here. please tell me the 'force'you're implying, is a playful force and not a reluctant situation.....

Warming the Bed

31 Jan 2013

Quote by Pussinboots1
ermmmmm I JUST need to ask this question.....Where are you from ??Heaven??
Now..welcome to SH and the you soon find what you are looking for.
FROM;- a very deviant and devilish woman..ME!!!!! alas ..... BUT not beautiful at all, how sad.

according to?????
beauty lays in the taste of the beholder no? mmmwah

Warming the Bed

31 Jan 2013

hey voyeur thanx for the welcome, i'm absolutely intrigued by this site and the basic openess i encounter here. to the mods............WELL DONE ON A FABULOUS SITE!!!

Warming the Bed

31 Jan 2013

i am brand spanking new to not only 'dogging', but even the term. i am very curious as to how i can get involved, in any way for starters, watching and/ or partaking? i am available anytime, anywhere within a 100km radius of cape town, mondays to fridays, 7am to 5pm. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,? x x x jake

Warming the Bed

31 Jan 2013

wink

hello, i'm in cape town, i'd like to meet some new people, different to the lot i normally socialise with. i'm hoping to find adventurous, spontaneous, openminded, fun, daring, naughty or just downright deviant minded friends here. lol was that too much to ask? x x x jake