I have dabbled with a number of open encounters/relationships - all very superficial and self-serving - I believe the open relationship should be mutually beneficial. I want to find a person that will be treated with respect, but will have clear rules and expectations to fulfill and be fulfilled. The terms of course need to be what the person is looking for and will provide as much for her/them as it will for me. The relationship will be nsa and will be for the role of experiencing and living our chosen lifestyle - if only for the times we meet. I am not interested in a once off meeting but an on-going experience that will grow and develop over time. These are the beginning of my terms...