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Chatur
2 months ago
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Bisexual White/Caucasian Female, 50
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Hello all,
I have read through all the concerns about the home page and although I am honestly not totally happy with it myself, I realise that it is a work in progress. Thanks to Admin for listening to the hundreds of comments and "suggestions" , here and via the support tickets (no matter how rude some might be) to improve this.
It is always nice to remember that many features on this site are free and yes some now have to pay for advanced features it is still an easy to navigate and very interactive site. I have seen many changes to the site in the time I have been here and I have been very impressed by how much the owners have put into this and the many sister sites all over the world. Well done!!!
Please also remember that when you go to your profile page and edit your likes and dislikes there, including the distance of people you might be interested in, it makes your home page / activity feed work a little more accurately. In essence, if you don't tell the feed what you would like how is it to know, codes can only pick up so much.
For those having a problem with the mobile sites please send a support ticket to admin so that they can determine your operating system and help to get it working, If they have not configured it yet, then it gives them the opportunity to determine the need. Again if you don't tell them they will not know...
Thank you to each and every one of you that take the time to comment and give feedback to the owners and the site moderators as we enjoy getting to know you. stick with us.. we are going places. ;)
Take care and keep :swingingchair:
Chatur
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Due to this being an old post I hope this has already been decided but in my opinion for those having the same "dilemma".
I would say that you are a good wife, however old fashioned that sounds, to make your hubbies needs a "priority". if a woman can't satisfy her partner it takes a strong woman to admit that and to rectify it. ^5 to you I say. However why don't you arrange it and still stay, You might be surprised, it could be a little helpful when trying to increase your own sex drive and therefore really making it special for hubby and yourself. Just watch even if you don't feel like participating. who knows you might want to eventually.
That is my opinion, but do what makes you feel comfy, and talk about it with honesty and love. Remember! even though, for the parties you invite it is just sex, between you and hubby it is way more special.
Good luck if you are still deciding. otherwise without kissing and telling let us know what decision you made or make. could be interesting.
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I love reading threads like this.. so informative. Honestly my experience with new phrases etc is boring compared to what I have read here. eeeeek is all I can say. :eeek:
Mine was a very interactive chat in the pool a while back. someone said that I would look good with a pearl necklace and my, very clever, answer to that was.. that is for weddings and old people..... 
I was then told via private message to Google it.. which I did and well.. suffice it to say. I learned something new that day 
Keep it up ladies and gents.. I can always find something interesting to read here.
Chatur
hope to see you there sometime.
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I have had a good read and thoroughly enjoyed this thread.. So many good points made here but the fact remains, very few read profiles, sadly.
The caps "insertions" (all comments/requests written in Caps) just annoy those who actually read the profiles, I think! I have read many complaints regarding them from couples, married - single (the married ones who play on their own) as well as single male and female profiles.
The one liners "nice vagina" or "nice tits" Really!! my public pics don't really show that much, (specifically done that way) so that would be your assumption and you will be ignored.. (dream on!)
I have taken the approach, if you are going to say two words to me, make them count.. intrigue me!
This is an awesome site with so many ways of being able to interact with each other, the owners make a huge effort to keep it simple and easy to use, allowing us to chat to all kinds of people, like minded or not. Why, oh Why? would you send me your number, bbm pin or e-mail address to interact with you? *Delete* goes your message and possibly *Ignore* if you are persistent.
I have been here a while and I have to be honest, if a wink is all you have in you then skip right past my "awesome profile" (as it has been called) when you are already breaking the rules / suggestions I have taken the time to add to it, by sending me your number, or even a friend request.
Thanks so much to the regular posters on these threads I so enjoy reading your comments and thoughts, even though I don't always offer my opinion / comment / thoughts to them.
And Thedude26.. pity you don't meet I would have loved to have chatted to you sometime, but please come over and say hi in the pool. And don't forget the caps regarding your don't meet policy.. 
and had to laugh as I looked at your profile - a quick message comment - "im so wet" .... hehe did it work for you? 
Have a good day all, chat again soon.
C
and had to laugh as I looked at your profile - a quick message comment - "im so wet" .... hehe did it work for you?
Have a good day all, chat again soon.
C
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I agree that the dick pics can be a little too much at times, after all I am one of the people that have to authorise them and have seen 100s here. I am always intrigued by the ones that show very little.. the one taken where the V (the part above the penis from the abdomen area) is showing but not the dick. (correct me if I am wrong ladies) The pic in bed with the penis covered but the legs are showing, the sexy stance with hands over the penis and the even sexier one in denims with just the top of the penis showing or not.
What I am saying is leave a little to the ladies imagination and if they should ask, show them what they want to see, tease a little. I agree that you should not show us ladies what we have not asked for, while some are really sexy, hard or soft they can be intriguing to look at, but it isn't all we want to see.
I am a hands person and love to see hands in pics too and have seen a few very sexy general pics with hands being the centre of the pic. (this I can't explain, just looks good when you see it) another turn on is a mind, I love it when the person can hold a decent conversation before I see what else he or she has to offer me.
I could pick out a few profiles that have very sexy pics that would be an example and will ask those individuals if I may post their names and links to their pics here sometime, but most have them in private folders and I respect the users privacy.
hope this helped ;) and please remember this is my opinion.
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This is how I see it .... I do not really have an issue regarding oral. I too have to be in a "zone" to get oral, therefore I decline most of the time, as it never seems to do anything for me except make the guy I am with happy, or so he says, as most guys seem to tell us ladies that they really love to please us in that way. I feel that I could be doing something so much more satisfying in that time... like actually pleasing the one I am with. I have only orgasmed once maybe twice from it as it takes forever, because I am thinking about how he is feeling... is his tongue getting tired, his neck sore perhaps etc... so I have stopped it many times and proceeded to something else.
Also men seem to enjoy it way more than woman in my opinion, and because of that they think that it is always what we want. I agree with Lee regarding the mention of instruction as guys need to listen... but I also don't want to keep telling him to move as that can become a chore for him eventually and make him feel inadequate.
This is my opinion and experience so please do not judge me for it.
