I’m fairly new here, so please help me. When I send an introductory message to a lady or couple (only after matching her/their preferences), why the silence? I can see that you’ve read my message, so please reply! If you had a look at my profile and you don’t like what you see, then please say so, at least then I know not to bother you again. I just think it’s utterly rude not to reply. Say your say, I’m a big boy, and will take no offence!
Probably because unless they are a member and have unlimited messages they only have 3 a day and they won’t waste them on someone they deem not a fit for them or not to their taste. They probably save them for those they are genuinely interested in engaging with.
It’s not about you and you’re going to be very disappointed if you expect everyone you message to revert back to you because you find it rude for them not too. Perhaps lower your expectations a little 🤏🏻 to avoid disappointment. 😉
My view .... as a single guy you have the right to be here .. anything over and above that is a bonus
Quote by BrattyKitty
Probably because unless they are a member and have unlimited messages they only have 3 a day and they won’t waste them on someone they deem not a fit for them or not to their taste. They probably save them for those they are genuinely interested in engaging with.
It’s not about you and you’re going to be very disappointed if you expect everyone you message to revert back to you because you find it rude for them not too. Perhaps lower your expectations a little 🤏🏻 to avoid disappointment. 😉
Well said, sister from another mister😉
Quote by Fun4all007
I’m fairly new here, so please help me. When I send an introductory message to a lady or couple (only after matching her/their preferences), why the silence? I can see that you’ve read my message, so please reply! If you had a look at my profile and you don’t like what you see, then please say so, at least then I know not to bother you again. I just think it’s utterly rude not to reply. Say your say, I’m a big boy, and will take no offence!
Note that the site actually allows for asetting that msgs from profiles of the chosen type/s are 'blocked' from msging, should the ppl not be interested in hearing from them. Unfortunately, the setting doesnt inform those sending the msg that the profile in question has activated this option and they even still have full access to view the profile etc, the profile just never gets your msg, so would never answer you.
Oh, and yes, unfortunately, many get so unindated with msgs, especially from single males, it just isnt possible to reply to all of themas just do not have the time etc. You should see the inbox of single woman and how they get swamped, as well as in the chatroom, good gawd, almost fell of my chair at one coffee meet we had where lady shared it, for us to see.
