Welcome to Swing Heaven.
Just relax make a few rules, stick to them, play safe ,and meet in public places before going off to enjoy the naughty side of meeting...Then there is only one thing to remember ENJOY and do not do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.
The rest you can read up on from guidelines given under the information center on the left side of your page.
Welcome ....
Agreed, set you rules now and then you will avoid the uncomfortable grey area in the future. Also you choose the first meeting spot, your in charge when it comes to meeting guys or couples so make sure you're comfortable.
As a single girl you will be inundated by mail ... BLOCK and REPORT anyone who harasses you - or gives you crap.
Don't be scared off by the overwhelming response to your profile - there are a lot of single guys lurking here thinking this is a quick and easy way to get a shag - only if the recipients report bad behaviour can we take action to be rid of the troublemakers.
Stay active on the forums and you will get the support and advice you need to make you feel like a part of the community and not just a piece of meat! And take a good look at a lot of good well written profiles from other single girls and the couples whose lady partners are the main members - those are often the better written ones. State your boundaries very clearly and do not put any pictures in your public area that are explicit or have your face in them if you want to keep the whack loads of unwanted mail to a minimum. NEVER post your personal contact detail anywhere except in private messages.
Welcome and please I hope you manage to stick around and have fun!
