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I want to give it a go but seems there is no demand for a lone wolf like myself. The idea really intrests me and I find it a turn on.
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Don't give up easy guys, if you're really genuine you'll find people in your area to meet with. Just don't be a doos or an arsehole. Treat the women like ladies that you'd be lucky to get the chance to taste. And you'll have them eating your yummy bodies in no time at all.
Be considerate. Be polite. Make friends in the forums and chatrooms. If you meet people by going to meet and greets, you'll be able to get validated - Ask them to validate you. Bring your A game. Swinging isn't free shags, it's being able to shag your friends. So go make friends.
Remember that couples will find it harder on average to travel than you will, so approach people who are looking for you, that are close by or live in a place you regularly travel to. Use the search function - find profiles that are looking for single guys, and don't approach people because you like their pictures: read their profile! They took the time to write it; logically it's probably worth factoring in all available information before making your approach; if your desired outcome is: you getting to swing with them. Right?
So I wish you well 
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Warming the Bed
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Give up guys.....ive been nice, a doos, a romantic, a Dom and still no luck LOL
Seems that the people on this site are voyeurs only.......
Anyway could be worse, still beats working LOL
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Hmm.
I hear you.
Hey, I suppose it is probably a factor too, where you are and who you are. . .
Truth is...
If you're in a conservative or small community. If you come from a minority group, if you're married and playing in secret, or under about 30... This would all reduce your chances. It is what it is.
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LeeEC has given good advice, take note, be patient and it will happen. Read their profiles and ads, consider what they are looking for and approach accordingly. You own profile is important too, they will look at that first before responding. Most people do not want to see your cock pics, put those in a private gallery for later viewing if they are interested. I have found that making friends before anything else is the most important lesson you can learn. I have made a few friends and met only one of them for coffee yesterday in the few months I have been here. Patience and consideration is a virtue. If it is a quick shag you are after you will be better off looking in your local newspaper classifieds section. 
Happy hunting.
Happy hunting.
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We are always open to meeting, sometimes it works sometime not but have always been open and honest. Don't give up but above all as said be respectful and honest with those you chat to, happy meetings xxxx
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Quote by EasyGuy80
Give up guys.....ive been nice, a doos, a romantic, a Dom and still no luck LOL
Seems that the people on this site are voyeurs only.......
Anyway could be worse, still beats working LOL
LOL, we meeting for drinks next week.........
