I am asexual, just want to get that out the way. I am sex positive but I go through phases where sex just doesn't interest me.
I have a fwb dynamic with my flat mate. But our sex drives don't quite align, so he is frequently left sexually frustrated. Especially when I'm in a no sex phase. He's an awesome guy, so he never pressures me and mostly keeps his struggle to himself to avoid making me feel bad.
He's tried finding other sources of sexual relief on apps like Tinder and Boo. But like I said... He's a great guy, so these girls keep falling for him, sometimes even after just one night together. He ends it before it gets too serious because he doesn't want to hurt anyone.
He's tried masturbating but that only gets him so far because he craves the human connection part of sex.
I'm not really sure how to help him. I considered maybe finding a female sexual partner here for him, but I think that may require me to be part of it and that defeats the point. I know women get so many offers from guys and it's a supply and demand kind of thing. So now I don't know. I'd really appreciate some advice or suggestions. He's my best friend and in a perfect world... I'd hope to find him another friend like me.
