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I think the things that could become fashionable in a sense (pineapples, toe rings, and/or black rings) become diluted by the general public, so it doesnt give someone that wants to approach a clear enough sign. What we like about other ideas that require effort (albeit very minimal) is that people will have to go out of their way to show this, but vanillas wont be doing it - helping those that want to approach by being able to do it with confidence.

So, from now on, we are going to be drinking with two straws in one drink, draping our napkins/serviettes over either the back of our chairs, or folding them over the corner of our tables.

We will do it specifically at the Local Kitchen Co/Fu Bar at Fourways Golf Place in Jhb in an attempt to make this a generally known concept in South Africa. Disclaimer: we dont go all too often, but hopefully we wont be the only ones buying into this concept and we can build a bit of a community. Feel free to mention other restaurants that you would like to do this at

I think mrs and I will make a turn there and look for this ;-)

On another note, seeing as how common the black ring is (specifically the amount of people wearing black silicone rings, why not adjust the colour? A yellow (pineapple colour) silicone ring. Just a thought.

In Pretoria - Bossa atterbury, The Goat&Co at The Village, Stoetbul Olympus 😘