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Hey so I need the couples to weigh in here.

What attracts you to a guy when looking at his profile. I get you only looking for guys when the need arises.

Your input will be appreciated.

A profile description that actually gives a look into the personality of the guy and pics that give you an idea of the body, not just the dick. There has to be some form of attraction before pursuing anything further.

When looking at a profile and all you see is dick pics, instant turnoff. Seriously, if we wanted to stare at a dick, we can stare at one of our dildos. If there is boasting about how talented he is and will be giving you the experience you've never had before, yawn and skip.

I second your opinion my best meet-ups the couples didn’t even ask for a dick pic.

Conversing with both hubby and wife. Some single gents disregard the husband. Maybe not intentionally,but because they are so eager to experience the wife. Sometimes this eagerness translates to the guy not even being "interested" in actually getting to know the couple or the wife for that matter. He is often overwhelmed by his own interests in her, he wants to get straight to the point. No effort in trying to arouse her before physical sex even begins. Such a turn off on so many levels. I always say if you want quick pussy, there must be a hooker nearby you can find. Otherwise take your time getting to know them so they are comfortable with you and allowing you into their space.

It is an opportunity for a SG to indulge in someone else's woman. It should be treated as the gift that it is.

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Conversing with both hubby and wife. Some single gents disregard the husband. Maybe not intentionally,but because they are so eager to experience the wife. Sometimes this eagerness translates to the guy not even being "interested" in actually getting to know the couple or the wife for that matter. He is often overwhelmed by his own interests in her, he wants to get straight to the point. No effort in trying to arouse her before physical sex even begins. Such a turn off on so many levels. I always say if you want quick pussy, there must be a hooker nearby you can find. Otherwise take your time getting to know them so they are comfortable with you and allowing you into their space.

It is an opportunity for a SG to indulge in someone else's woman. It should be treated as the gift that it is.

I totally agree with that. Everybody on here has their reasons for being in the lifestyle. For me when I play with a couple it’s actually such a turn on with the Mr being excited watching his partner being enjoyed. It takes a lot of trust to let a guy into the circle.

Very hard for the guys playing alone

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Very hard for the guys playing alone

It is but if you are genuine and patient it really is worth it.

I love people watching whether I'm watching or you're watching it just turns me the fuck on and I don't know what it is but it just gets my blood boiling and I love it.

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Conversing with both hubby and wife. Some single gents disregard the husband. Maybe not intentionally,but because they are so eager to experience the wife. Sometimes this eagerness translates to the guy not even being "interested" in actually getting to know the couple or the wife for that matter. He is often overwhelmed by his own interests in her, he wants to get straight to the point. No effort in trying to arouse her before physical sex even begins. Such a turn off on so many levels. I always say if you want quick pussy, there must be a hooker nearby you can find. Otherwise take your time getting to know them so they are comfortable with you and allowing you into their space.

It is an opportunity for a SG to indulge in someone else's woman. It should be treated as the gift that it is.

Could not agree more

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Hey so I need the couples to weigh in here.

What attracts you to a guy when looking at his profile. I get you only looking for guys when the need arises.

Your input will be appreciated.

I see profile description mentioned, but also, their pic album. When some thought put into things beyond slapping ppl with close ups dick pics. Seriously, if thats all the guy thinks it takes, doesnt exactly make a compelling case to bother engaging with them as clearly their views of woman on here pose potential issues.