I used to love going to St Lucia. I could drive my 4x4 on the beaches to a desired fishing spot miles from the vehicle access points to the beach. Some years back, vehicles were banned on the beaches (anywhere) in S.A. as well as Mozambique. Only skippers license holders are allowed access to launch a boat and immediately remove the vehicle from the beach. This was thanks to all the idiots using the beaches as offroad playgrounds. The law abiding ones suffer because of the few idiots!
There is a resort that belongs to the Forever Group that used to allow quad bikes in the resort. They had rules and regulations. I used to go there often. People were again riding quads as if they were on track so the resort banned quads. Again, the decent ones suffer because of the idiots.
There are many, many examples of this sort of thing. The happenings on this site follow the same trend. I view profiles in the hundreds. I see many that once said males welcome that suddenly say no single males... Obviously because of the messages they get. By the time a decent guy makes contact, it is too late. This goes for female profiles as well. I have just seen in the last 20mins, three female that not more than a week ago were looking for males and females, now just females and couples. This should not bother me as I am not looking for someone for me but rather for "us". Problem is that I still have a male profile and can't upgrade it to a couple profile (unless I spend British pound sterling!). I sent 25 messages yesterday (couple seeking female) with emphasis on it being a girl on girl thing and a night out before hand - no expectations - no pressure. Of these messages, 16 were read and not a single reply... I see that these girls viewed my profile. I believe that because it is a "male" profile, I will have zero success in finding a lady to join us... I hear countless times about men posing as couples and being caught out. Guess I will perceived the same. Don't want to create a new couple profile! I am part of this site and community as my profile stands.
Thanks men! You guys really know how to rain on a parade!! Start talking to people with some respect on here and maybe we will all get somewhere - including you! (That is not for all the males, but the guilty ones know who they are).