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Gauteng Dogging - putting a new "group" together

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From time to time I get asked by couples to "recommend" guys who can be approach to take part in "arranged dogging" or watching sessions". It doesn't happen often, but it definitely DOES happen wink, and I consider it a real privilege to be in this situation. Sometimes these "events" happen at short notice (same day), sometimes planned a few days ahead. Sometimes there are age limits placed on the participants, like a recent "no over 40s" request. Sometimes it's just a single guy they want, and sometimes it's a small group... On each occasion I have been asked to vouch for the "decency" of the guy(s) that I bring in. It's about their commitment to pitch up when they say that they will be there, and their ability to show restraint, trustworthiness and common decency, rather than their sexual prowess (although obviously you need to be able to get it up and perform if the circumstances call for that!), that is most important to the couples wanting to be watched or dogged with. I currently have a (limited) group of gents that I have met and "vetted", who I can personally vouch for when requested to make such recommendations. But not everyone is available all the time. Some are only available weekends, others only available weekdays during the daytime, others evenings-only due to work limitations. Some might end up have meetings or family or other commitments at the time of the proposed event. Also, a lot of the guys I know are "older gents" like myself. I am looking to increase the size and age range of my "resource pool", for when such occasions arise and I need to get hold of guys for an arranged dogging or watching session. If you are interested, and think you fit the bill, you can send me a message, or just put your offer on this forum. I will get back to you (unless I am totally inundated with offers!!), and we would need to set up an arrangement to meet for a coffee / drink / lunch and a chat. You will need to be "screened" to get onto the list, like everyone else has to date! I cannot promise that "getting onto the list" will ensure that you get to attend an event or get to see some action - I am sure that the supply offers will far exceed the demand! With arranged-dogging and watching events, we are at the mercy of willing couples who want to and are prepared to do something like this, and believe me they are few and far between... But, trust me, when it happens, it's always worth it!! So I wait to be inundated with offers.....
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hi I hope to join ur elite contact me ok on wat u require from hear from you soon
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i would love to join im from randburg andd work from home so availability is not allwaays a problem cheerrs burt
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Hi, was in with the feather group at Germiston please keep me in the loop here! Thanks
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Hi Bruce i am a 53 jr old chap who loves to watch and have fun as a dogger .working inGauteng and Free state i am avalible on short notice and like to be in your group Regards Ben
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I'd love to join. Came close at an arranged one but security got in the way and been to many spots but no action
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yeah ... I'm in Randburg and am also pretty flexible and available. I enjoy voyeurism and participating.
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We have to respect the choice of others. I'm just wondering if there are any interracial dogging lovers in Pta/Jhb areas. If there is I think one should create a frienship circle in order to protect the identity of those who want to cross the racial boundaries but don't want others to know that they do. JUST A THOUGHT
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Saw your request in the forum and would like to be added to your elite data base
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Im in randburg,please add me to yur group
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Hi plz add me
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H. Please add me to your growing list.I'm new to this site and still battling to find my way around.
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Hi guys, Sorry, but it is time to close this list off! (it's been up here for more than a month!) I have been totally inundated with "please include me"s here on the forum and through mail messages - far more than I could ever expect to be able to involve in any action that I might get invited to. Meanwhile, opportunities for involvement have recently gone very quiet. So we're a group sitting around available and waiting, with currently not much to do! To date I have only been able to meet up with a few of the "applicants", with a lot of the guys just fading away when it came to actually arranging to meet (there have also been more recent "applicants" who I have not yet tried to set up meetings with, due to having been a bit busy the last two weeks), and a few meeting arrangements still pending. The guys that I have met, have all been really good decent gents with interests similar to mine, and I have enjoyed the opportunity to widen my circle of friends. To the others who haven't yet responded or firmed up a meeting arrangement, I still hope to meet you guys sometime so you too can be included... So I have a physical list of names of all those who have expressed interest, whether I have met with you as yet or not, and including those folks that I had met prior to the idea of the "group". As and when opportunities arise, I will be in touch with those that suit the requirements of the couples inviting us, to see who is keen and available. But for now, not taking any more "applications". Sorry.