Warming the Bed
I fear we have a long way to go before this will ever be as spontaneous as it is in Europe.
With our current culture everyone who is willing to do this is to afraid of what can happen if there is a bunch of pushy, arrogant people who cant take NO for an answer.
For now the only solution is to have an arranged meet with carefully selected individuals who have hopefully met before (over coffee sounds good)
As for all of those who judge I say live and let live. If I am happy having fun with my partner/s and no-one is being hurt why interfere, and why should I interfere with what my neighbour is doing, as long as no one is being physically or mentally hurt.
We only live once, live it to it's fullest and ignore the idiots at the roadside who wish they were living the way we do.
there is a reason it is called a Lifestyle :twisted:
