Just curious to hear some opinions from you lovely swingers as to what would make you go to swingers club now? i guess this is specifically for those who used to go but don't now, or those who have been thinking about it but don't go?
Bring the costs down. And stop with the silly dress-up themes. We're there to play!
Have dedicated smoking areas away from the general lounge/ bar and play areas and keep prices reasonable.
The cost is a real thing 🤣🫠. The Uber there, plus entrance plus cost of drinks. The Uber back.
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Have dedicated smoking areas away from the general lounge/ bar and play areas and keep prices reasonable.
Smoking is such a turn-off. Totally agree
Be professional, actually be present as management, staff, not patrons. If you too busy in the bedrooms yourselves, who is doing the job making sure rules followed, and patrons safe?
And actually apply the rules and standards/ethics of conduct etc claim to promote and enforce. As a mom, Im looking for a safe place to play, provide what you advertise/promise, especially at the prices charging.
Edit: And seriously, make EVERYONE follow the rules, no special treatment for your friends/big spenders and follow the rules yourselves owners, set the standard, dont abuse your position of power.
Edit 2: To venues and patrons. Its about providing a venue to hang out and be safe. If money is being exchanged with an actual expectation of sex with strangers, then the patrons attitude is one of attending a brothel and prostitution. Nobody has any right to demand anybody interacts with them or anyone else at the venue, if you think that ppl have rights over others like that, to make demands and expect things like that of others, you're talking lvls of sex trafficking so get your heads out your asses with your complaints about so called clicky attitudes and whatnot.
On the topic of "costs".
Here's our take.
As a couple - we don't play on a first date. So that usually means meeting a couple for a drink to test synergies "face to face". So... thats 3 hours of our time. Minimum. Plus drinks. On average 3 out of 5 of these meets don't end up in play owing to "lack of synergies". So there's a heavy time investment to meet peeps that way.
Or. You can go to 1 party at a club. Get to meet 25 couples in the space of 3 hours easily. It's a no brainer to spot the miss-matches. If there's a couple we both like the "look and feel" of - we'll hit them up with a convo. Usually 10 minutes of chatting and we know if we want to take things into a bedroom. We'll get their deets and message them later (if play that night isn't possible).
So we see the clubs as a Speed Dating opportunity. Getting to face to face with 10 couples is going to take months and cost 20 times more than a single club visit.
Just our 5c
