Women and the security factor

Most women (I think!!) adore security. They just love it. And they flower within…But does it necessarily give them the freedom to express their sexuality ..?  Does it give them the freedom to express their feminine side in public…? Does it allow them to flirt unconditionally….? To let those high heels click-clack with confidence…? Or is she continuously wondering what hubby would say..? How he would react..? Is she looking over her shoulder all the time..?

Having said that, I do think many men have been changing their views on the monogamy life style - the idea of "she is mine". The hotwife idea has become more and more popular. More men would love to see their women flirting with others. Would love to see her thoroughly enjoy being a woman – and enjoy all the attention that comes with it.

One of my petty pleasures in life, is to see her (any woman) enjoying the receipt of sexual pleasure,…to watch her loosing control…. If the man's ultimate goal is for her to receive so much pleasure that it would completely blow her mind, then surely it becomes unimportant how she gets there..? I.e. by your stimulation or by someone else's ?  If I would be walking in public with a lady and she tells me she would love to jerk off that guy (or that one!) standing there….I would approach him on her behalf and ask him whether he is interested. I would just like to be there, too. But even that is not the end of the world. Thing is: if she is allowed to freely express her sexuality, I would be the person that ultimately benefit most….

 Back to security: A woman that is allowed to flirt freely WITHIN a sphere of security, i.e. a marriage or a relationship within which she is allowed to flirt, would become your ultimate beautiful, confident and sexy woman….

I think....

`` .........One of my petty pleasures in life, is to see her (any woman) enjoying the receipt of sexual pleasure,…to watch her loosing control…. If the man's ultimate goal is for her to receive so much pleasure that it would completely blow her mind, then surely it becomes unimportant how she gets there..?``  That sums it up doesn`t it. All that is required is for men to grow up an realise this.

this does actually exist in the LS. we are one of those couples. the more she loses her inhibitions, the more turned on I get. the more fun she has, the more fun I have. the more of a slut she becomes for that time being, the more I want her.

"That sums it up doesn`t it. All that is required is for men to grow up an realise this."

Yes, most important. I guess what I tried to emphasize is that it could actually be easier for women to operate from within a relationship providing that have full freedom - something all women should have.

"this does actually exist in the LS. we are one of those couples. the more she loses her inhibitions, the more turned on I get. the more fun she has, the more fun I have. the more of a slut she becomes for that time being, the more I want her."

I do realize the existence of the scenario you sketched. The question, though, is : How many women have COMPLETE freedom ? I.e. to hook up with anyone of their choice, anywhere to her choice AND the choice of either having or not having her partner present...