So I have read many profiles stating that they will not respond to generic messages and I understand they are rather impersonal but as a guy who has taken the time to write so many unique sometimes witty some times charming messages ( most of which to profiles whos criteria I meet , and some that I didn't,.... ...I leave this space for your admonishment ) it's rather disheartening to get no reply .This makes taking the time to tailor a message so much more difficult. Is it unreasonable to expect a reply ( obviously if I am taking a chance by messaging you when I dont meet your criteria then yes I do understand not only do I expect no reply but I normally get blocked ), and I'm not asking for a unique reply, winks can be customised. Why not customise a wink that says thanks but no thanks , or better luck next time buddy, or the subscriber you have dialled is not available, I don't know something. To those that are not fans of the wink did you know (now I sound like a chappies) you can set your replies to a wink, so if someone winks at you the system doesn't send it to your mailbox but slaps them with a " you lazy bastard type a proper message reply" ok that's not entirely true they do phrase it more diplomatically. We can get into the philosophical question of should someone who detests winks use the automated reply for another topic but my point..... Wait what is my point .....o yeah my point is there are now ways to auto respond or with the touch of the wink button say thanks but no thanks and surely that's the polite thing to do ?