just a question? Where do you draw the line when it comes to swinging with family (close family, distant family, step family etc.) How far would you go when it comes to family. Her is the situation. I was invited to a mask swingers party where only couples and single ladies were invited. I am a single guy, always attend the parties with a girlfriend of mine (keep in mind that we are not a couple in a serious relationship. only friends). The rules for the evening were simple. There were 7 rooms that were available for those people that wanted privacy but halve an hour before midnight body will gather in the lounge and continue with what they were doing there as a group. The host will call out "FREEZE" at midnight where everyone will then stay in the position that they were busy in and take of their masks. I have been eyeballing this one chick whom has a body like a goddess who was having a time of her life. The only chance I got with her was about five minutes to midnight. So everything went well and at the end of the evening when we heard the word "FREEZE" everything stopped. The goddess in front of me were on all fours (doggy style) and I was still deep inside when we stopped what we were doing. The hostess asked that everybody remove their masks to reveal themselves to one another. My goddess and i removed our masks at the same time and got the shock of our life. I was staring into the eyes of my younger sister. I could see that she was just as surprised as I was. I only realized at that point that my sister and her husband were both swingers. At that point she started giggling (not Laughing) and I pulled my cock out as fast as I could, got up and left the party. I was very embarrassed and exited at the same time about what happen. I tried to avoid my sister for as long as I could and eventually was cornered by my brother in law while I was visiting our brother in Johannesburg. He wanted me to come and visit them so that i could take some photos of the two of them together. So I asked for advise from other members on the FORUM and got some interesting private messages from them. Here is some of the advise I got. 1. Go for it, you won't get a chance to screw your sister again. 2. Do the photo shoot and see it as a business deal. 3. Use it to your own advantage to have more sex with your sister. 4. I think the best advise i got was to get together with my sister and talk about it. So I did arrange a meeting with my sister and we did talk about what happened at the party. I was shocked to find out that she really enjoyed the sex. I did the photo shoot for them and I tell you it felt so bizarre to watch your own sister having sex with my brother in law and one of their best friends. I did the shoot and got out of there as fast as I could only to see my sister a week later when she came to pick up the photos. We had another talk about what happened at the party. Now here is the problem! 1. She and my brother in law wants me to join them for a threesome. 2. She wants some alone time with me so that we could have one to one sex. I would like the member opinion on this
Well, reading your post, I get the sense that you are not quite comfortable with the situation.
However, you are not sure about whether having sex with your willing sister is 'wrong', hence the topic?
Also, you said it was wierd just watching her with your brother in law.... what made it wierd for you? Was it because she was your sister, or for a different reason?
Just because she wants to, doesn't mean you have to.
Not sure if any of this is actually helpful ;)
C
By now you know my take on the whole family thing.
I have to say K_C asked valid questions and you should go and think on those.
I just have something else to should go and think on these, aswell as your sister and her hubby.
In this lifestyle, we all want to make longstanding friends.
Some of us do, BUT as life carries on even that longstanding friendship can sour and become nonexistent in the end, It becomes a fond friendships does not last anyway.
It is how we each grow in different ways as life tends to do to all of us.
If you do go and you do have sex with your sister , and you do have a fall out...you will have to see her and her hubby at family gatherings HOW are you going to cope then?
Not saying it will happen ,but it could you have to think on EVERY scenario before just jumping her she yours.
You say YOU are think about the next ...
If you meet the girl of your dreams, are you going to tell her about this? WHAT will she think of you and your sister??
Maybe you are lucky and she wants to swing with you,MOST likely it won`t happen.
and you loose the one woman that you could have had a great relationship with.
Should one of the other family members find out how to explain to them????
Should your sister and her hubby go into a bad relationship and wants a divorce....WOULD the guy not just bring it up if the divorce gets ugly....*she is banging her brother * and most likely he will have photos to show the truth of that statement????? You as I know, society is not looking at info like that as favorable. especially if there is KIDS involved that needs to go to a parent.
One can only hope NOTHING of the above will ever happen......but life is not easy and not a fantasy. IN LIFE SHIT happens all the can only be sure to cover all our own basis to try and prevent to much shit exploding around us.
I know I do sound negative, I am not I am just by nature very paranoid as to what people do to each other,
Thanks for the input.
To answer KC's question about why I feel wierd.
The fact that I always have felt attracted to my sister. But not in a sexual way. And Yes, it felt wierd not because she is just my sister. It is the knowllege that she's being screwed by other guys. In a way I do find it exciting.
In answer to Pussyinboots1 comments:
Yes, I am also a bit paranoid about the situation. I have considered all the options you have mentioned. Although I would like to have sex with her again, I just feel that it is not the right thing to do. There is a stronger bond between us now and I don't want to destroy that now. We had a long talk this morning and have decided our friendship is more important. We came to a compromise that when we swing together, we would stay away from each other. I am doing a photo shoot with them again this weekend. My brother in law had organised a dozen or so other guys to join them for a gang bang. I'll be taking the photos and will not be participating.
Your comments Lekkerspyker -
"Thanks for the input.
To answer KC's question about why I feel wierd.
The fact that I always have felt attracted to my sister. But not in a sexual way. And Yes, it felt wierd not because she is just my sister. It is the knowllege that she's being screwed by other guys. In a way I do find it exciting.
In answer to Pussyinboots1 comments:
Yes, I am also a bit paranoid about the situation. I have considered all the options you have mentioned. Although I would like to have sex with her again, I just feel that it is not the right thing to do. There is a stronger bond between us now and I don't want to destroy that now. We had a long talk this morning and have decided our friendship is more important. We came to a compromise that when we swing together, we would stay away from each other. I am doing a photo shoot with them again this weekend. My brother in law had organised a dozen or so other guys to join them for a gang bang. I'll be taking the photos and will not be participating."
It seems you have your answer. Stay best friends, but stay away sexually. On the long term it will be your best decision.
Good luck and enjoy!
It is my younger sister.
I have been swinging with my step sister and her husband even before her mother and my father got married and is still doing threesomes with them. This has been going on for the last 10 years. Our parents has only been married for 7 years now.
Quote by lekkerspyker It is my younger sister. I have been swinging with my step sister and her husband even before her mother and my father got married and is still doing threesomes with them. This has been going on for the last 10 years. Our parents has only been married for 7 years now.
Wow...and I thought the plot for "The Bold and the Beautiful" was convoluted. You know the saying "forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest?" Well, with your sister, the risk of a really bad aftertaste is simply too great. Personally, I'd advise against being involved at all. Avoid even the videoing. The reason for this is quite simple. If the thought of sex with her is turning you on, the more of her that you see (sexually) the more you are going to want to get involved. Also, as you see more, the weirdness will decrease - and this is largely what's helping to keep u from taking the "plunge" Eventually you're probably going to have sex with her. You need to think about the possible long term consequences of doing this. Pussinboots pointed some of these out very well. Of course, most of this could be avoided if you had sex with her in secret - but that would be cheating on her husband. If he finds out, which he probably will, the shit could really hit the fan. Decide what you want and stick to it. Don't try to go half way into this... really that's like sticking your dick halfway into hot, tight, wet, sexy babe and trying to stop before you've gone all the way in - before you've experienced the full pleasure her body has to offer - NOT GONNA HAPPEN! Good luck. Just remember, it is easy for memories to fuel our desires. The more of her adventures you see, the more you are going to think about her - sexually. The more you think about her, the more likely you will do what you are thinking - especially if she AND her husband are already willing...
Ok I am sorry to say but its not on sleeping with our own sister rather stay away from her. Step sister is different if its not a half sister this being you have the same dad or mom then its all ok.
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