So I have a question what is the definition of a casual sex relationship or fuck bubby? What's the difference between that and say friends with benefits and also a full on relationship. How does one know what type of relationship they are in?
Fuck buddy is just someone you call up for sex when needed nsa, you don't do things together.
Friends with benefits you have the pleasure of friendship, you do things together ie movies , dinner etc, but u also have the sex when needed, nsa
Fuck buddy are that what it said a fuck and that's all, in and out. Friends are in my opinion someone you become more than only shag when you met. Having parties, braai and socialist with and if you shag its a bonus.
Have a good conversation about the lifestyle and life that you not will have with your mother .
Ok so then what's the difference between friends with benefits and a full on relationship. Cos don't u do the same things when you in a relationship
Don't think there is a difference, We did not believe in friends with benefits, we have friends and if something happened it happened and if nothing happens all the same. We had a lot of friends in the lifestyle and there will never been sex other wise than flirt.
Full on relationship is easy really...it is when you have met and will start a 24/7 relationship with someone, thus, will either move in with him/her or marry him/her.
NO Strings Attached (NSA) and fuck buddy goes hand in hand for me....they are someone that you just call up for a booty call, you are not buddies to hang out with, nor cuddle with. Both of you have undertaken the sex thing ,just as booty calls...when you want sex he gets phoned when he wants sex he phones is just sex NO lingering afterwards.
Friends with Benefits are someone you can either just hang out with and socialize and if the need and the opportunity is there have sex with. ONCE again it is just friendship and not a full time sexual Relationship,THERE are no emotional feelings is what most life stylers want.
Women has a HARD time NOT to get emotionally involved with the person she is having a sexual relationship with in what ever category you want to give has it much easier,they can have sex with no emotional involvement.
That is why I always suggest a single lady has a few lovers, so she is NOT just having sex with one man...less chance of getting emotionally saying she has to be a slut, yeah, but have 2 or 3 regular lovers.
Here is what I think apart from the "official" definitions... A man that is scared of or skeptical of commitment will want what he believes is "friends with benefits" arrangement. The emotions needed to sustain a relationship are there - he just ignores them and tells himself he is still as free as a bird. When you look a girl in the eyes while having sex, you are inlove! Deny it all you want! I bullshitted myself for two years with this girl I have now. She had my heart from day one, I just told myself that we are keeping each other busy. A fuck buddy is different though. That is true NSA. Hook up for sex occasionally but live your own separate lives, come and go as you please.
That's what I think...
Friends with benefits - more often than not a future boy/girl friend
Fuck buddy = usually because one or the other (or even both) is actually involved.
What the movies want you to think and believe is pretty much what the world would like, but reality . . . . that thing really does bite.
Now remember everybody, this is MY own opinion, you are under no obligation to accept it, it does not currently have an expiry date, it does not play well with others, but like I said, IT IS MINE . . . . .
Here is my view
A fuck buddy is very impersonal in a sense. You call them up, go straight to the bedroom and have your fun.
A friend with benefits is still a normal friend where you hang out, chat etc and at the same time have casual friends. It does open some questions about you relationship and as PiB said emotional attachment.
To me the difference between a FwB and a relationship is that with a relationship there is commitment to things like anniversaries, regular dates, whereas a FwB has flexibility. The other thing is when you walk through a mall would you hold hands with a friend and kiss them, that's more a couple thing IMO. However in both there is a connection with feelings, trust, respect etc and calling it a quits can be hard, not so with a fuck buddy.
