So you see an alluring alias. Their half revealing pics or no pics but intriguing profile grabs your attention. You guys move to bbm or email or what's app. Then you start calling each other and decide to meet. You choose a day, time and venue and they show up, they don't look anything like you thought( from what you have seen) or they are not who they portrayed themselves to be. Or maybe there's just no attraction from your side.
What do you do? What follows after that meeting? How do you decline?
simply with a: sorry guys, we don't feel any connection towards you and it wont be right to keep you wondering. sorry, hope you find what you are looking for.
Is that what you say there in their faces? Like in the flesh? Or via text?
gosh nooooo, we cant bear to be that rude. it will start of with a text, saying thanks for making the time to meet or so. and then the we are sorry to inform you that.................
we are also human and we will handle it the way that we would've like it to be handled, we don't like to beat around the bush to keep people in the dark.
I had that once, the couple were both significantly older and their physical attributes were not what was advertised. We had coffee and I politely declined them by mail later. Not nice to be mislead like this.
Just be honest with them, we are all adults here I hope.
It is difficult to say that there is no attraction but generally the person would know by gestures etc that the feelings are perhaps either not mutual or not there from you.
Best is to be nice and polite up front
