Apologies if this has been raised but havent noticed it.
I have been less online in the last 6 months than my first 6 months and have noticed the change in members. Many men, sorry to say, seem to think that the chatroom is a sex chat room and within hardly more than a hello have made vivid suggestions or want to know for 5to chatyour fave position what you wearing ie panties etc etc.
My big gripe is my profile does clearing state i am looking for a woman, no wonder when this is what is confronting me! And I am by no means at all a prude but I am not about to chat for 5 mins meet a strange man and jump into the sack
Anyway not sure if anyone else has noticed it
Mwahs
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Maxie,
Welcome to Swinging Heaven.
You do ask what kind of site this is, it is a Swinging site and although most people will disagree with me, this also a SEX site.
The problem for single ladies is, that the moment you upload a photo, people mostly just look at that part and DO not read what you took the time to write in your written profile. It will always remain a big problem on what ever site you decide to be on. People seem not be able to read anymore.
Men will remain horn dogs, we all know that, they will write you, some with a nice little polite note (who I am sure we all appreciate) some VERY obnoxious and some out and out just plain rude. In the hopes that they will stand out and you will decide to meet with them.
I have to also have to sadly say, MOST men are married or attached and will just look for a quicky and one night you will find a LOT of gems here, if you stay long enough.
Nothing prevents you to exchange mails with anyone who sounds interesting as long as they know you are not going to meet up.
As for the chat room, there are Moderators on duty, mostly in the day as sometimes they are all Off line,(the blue stars indicate who they are)just report them and they will be blocked to the chat rooms.
Know that you do NOT have to answer all whispers, you can just ignore them,, as everyone in chat knows that to whisper to someone you have to ask first.
You can also block the really rude and obnoxious chatters
If you log into chat you will find the chat rules I know not everyone reads that part.
Best of luck finding the lady of your fantasy,she is out there, just keep on looking.
Have a great week.
