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just a question how many of you blokes out there enjoy watching there wife been banged by another bloke
Quote by LeeEC
Actually I discovered that it is a bit of a turn on to be watched him. .. Not that I want to be watched by anyone else though.
And once we spoke about the issue of him not being able to participate. ... and he indicated to me that he is hugely turned on by even just the idea of watching me, that just talking about it gets him going. He made me promise not to self censor.
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@ Amazon
You are asking a very relevant question here, what most newbie or wanna be swingers ask.
What if......
If you read way back in the forums it does get discussed and if you read and google swing rules and such, there is a LOT of info you can digest.
But to say it short and sweat.
Every couple has to work through these issues on their own.(as you so rightly said you guys will do)
The moment there is a little jealousy or a feeling of *my partner is enjoying it way more than with me...or now just look at her/him do things he/she would not allow with me...* THAT is the red flag waving.
That is why anyone would advise you guys to HAVE a set of rules(before even meeting potential playmates.)......and keep to it.
And just as in BDSM , have a SAFE word to let your partner knows all is not right ....whether it is you/him not enjoying your /his*play partner*or the moment you/him realize you are a little uncomfortable or jealous...to stop all play Say thank you for the *date* but go home to discuss what is it that went wrong and how you felt when you/he used your/his safe word.
DO NOT brood on this and keep it to yourself/himself. Bring it in the open and work through it!!!!THAT is the only way your relationship will grow stronger and stronger.
Most people would also say start slow...and do same room play first, then progress from there...first a little flirting with light touching,then progress further to heavier petting and more touching...then to same room play with other partners not your own.
BUT always and always END the night making love to your own spouse!!!! and ALWAYS discuss what it is you felt when playing with other people what you liked and disliked.
And sure , each person new you play with might *teach* you new things well that is a positive thing...you can do that with your hubby and he with you.
Thought I would share this.
I have seen REALLY strong marriages end because of the above....BUT I also saw a lot of marraiges just grow stronger and is that not fantastic???
Quote by feenicksI love it!!!! We usualy have 3 guys taking turns for me to watch.
just a question how many of you blokes out there enjoy watching there wife been banged by another bloke
Quote by wetemkeI love it!!!! We usualy have 3 guys taking turns for me to watch.
just a question how many of you blokes out there enjoy watching there wife been banged by another bloke
Quote by Amazon
How different is this from cuckolding.
Quote by LeeEC
He won't answer. . So I'll do it for him. .
My husband likes it too