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Unexpectedly seen a fellow swinger in public

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Hi so we met this couple in the swinger club chatted and flirted it was fun but it never lead to the us playing this was about 2 months back

Fast forward to now we bump into eachother in a mall a very vanilla setting so me and wife stop and greet and make small chat and walk away

I am curious to know if you as a couple or singles bump into someone in a vanilla setting what do you do it's a very blurry line I feel with most people wanting to keep the lifestyle and dey vanilla life separately

Would love to hear other perspectives and stories

Do you greet and make small chat
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Smile and just walk away
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A friendly HI and walk away
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Ignore and just walk like you don't know eachother
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Yes. I've bumped into a quite few swingers in my previous life... Then had to think of ways to tell my (now) wife, who knew that I was a swinger. Usually, if the ladies were by themselves, we would chat, but one lady, who who was also single at the time, once straight up ignored me when she was with her new hubby. The second time we bumped into each other, she tried to sell me a life policy and I just walked away...

head down ,, smile walk away

just act normal, great, chat and just be yourself.

Just act normal and say hi, nothing to it!!

We don't feel that there is any shame in this as we all share the same interest. Keep the chat vanilla but friendly.