Hello all you genuine swingers out there. I have to have my say on something that really bugs me. I am in the lifestyle to meet genuine and like minded people, this is proving to be harder than expected with all the fakes and thrill seekers on the site. They waste our time and are very rarely honest.
I also find that there are a number of lonely people out there who in the wee hours of the morning join the site in order to fill the empty void....... or in hope of filling the void. Once again a total waste of time.
How do we avoid this SH? cant you regulate the site usage a little more strictly?
What are your thoughts? genuine swingers.
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Tired of fakes and phonies
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Welcome to the club my friend go and read the forums off the past and you will see how many people complain on the same topic as you.
May I ask what your contribution is to swinging???
What is your swingers expectations??
What is your swingers experience to say we who are here ,is mostly * fakes and thrill seekers,and lonely people trying to fill a void late nights*?
As far as I KNOW swingers is a COUPLE ACTIVITY and NOT a single activity.
I personally take offense in the posting of this forum.
As this site is for everyone and anyone,this site does not demand we all be *swingers* to join.
We all have a little space right here.
Come now PIB, you have to admit that you are something of an anomaly yourself.
There aren't a lot of people who're genuinely anything like you!
Therefore you must assume that, being the anomaly that you uniquely are, he can not possibly be talking about you, he couldn't possibly in his wildest dreams, conceive of the idea, of someone like you existing... so therefore, not talking about you.
So you shouldn't be offended by his point of view, only sad for him that he hasn't yet had the honour of meeting someone as uniquely unusual and interesting as you.... 
If my eyes don't deceive me, the title of this site is SWINGING Heaven.... And whilst swinging may be a couples activity, there is most certainly a place for single men and women and everyone who has an opinion is more than entitled to share it.
Pussinboots, i'm astounded at your response! Taking personal offense at what Daduke has posted and then berating him for it goes against many of the values that are held in high esteem in the lifestyle and goes against many of your very own blogs and posts.
Exercise a little more tolerance, it goes a long way
I might have jumped the gun with getting all snotty...but really,I sometimes have to throw my eyes at the sky with all the complaints that the site is not good enough as it is.
It is a free site and it does a LOT for us freebies...
We get a lot of things for free RIGHT here, where on other sites we have to pay for the same privileges.
HOW many people will remain if suddenly we have to pay subs?? NOT only the fakers or bullshitters or the lonely will leave, a lot of the so called real swingers will also leave.
On any site you will find people who is fake,who is picture hunters,who is lonely and wants to fill a void,who is dissatisfied on how things develop or pans out for them. NOT just this site.
It may be called a swinger site,but it is after all it is also a sex site, even if no one wants to hear that. OR else if I am totally wrong,tell me why there is dogging and lots of of of other things for all sorts of sexual interest here?? as Dogging does not fall under swinging at all.I am also talking about the options on what you as a profile here can choose from in what direction your sexual expectations and interest lies.
I always say we all have a space right here and I said so in my first comment.
I think before anyone complains about this site,and about who is allowed here and who not,they rather have to say thank you for site owners for giving us all this site to chat and learn about sex and other peoples sexual choices.
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Hello all you genuine swingers out there. I have to have my say on something that really bugs me. I am in the lifestyle to meet genuine and like minded people, this is proving to be harder than expected with all the fakes and thrill seekers on the site. They waste our time and are very rarely honest.
I also find that there are a number of lonely people out there who in the wee hours of the morning join the site in order to fill the empty void....... or in hope of filling the void. Once again a total waste of time.
How do we avoid this SH? cant you regulate the site usage a little more strictly?
What are your thoughts? genuine swingers.
If the site usage was regulated to be more strict, you would never have been allowed to join.
As for people not being honest, this is Africa dude, Africa which is in the place called the World, and the topic is Sex, so expecting 100% honesty from a cyber person . . . . . well, enough said!
Swinging while strictly speaking is for couples, the couple are also often interested in a third person, and normally, they want that third person to be unattached to avoid complications, hence the "opening" for single people.
I would strongly suggest that you have a look at your mindset and decide what you are actually looking for, and I have no doubt your success rate will improve dramatically.
And as for people (males) looking at your profile, you have pictures in the gallery, they are going to get looked at, and that then shows up on your profile.
