This lifestyle confuses the monogamous folk

Quote by KC_
On Friday night I went out for ladies night to a wonderful burger bar with topless waiters.
These guys are great at flirting - obviously, their tips rely on it!
They have amazing bodies, and I honestly contemplated spending the R300 just to lick alcohol off their yummy tummies...
Anyway, as the evening progressed, our group took over and created a dance area near the bar.
Needless to say, these guys had to get passed us to deliver their drink orders.
I danced against quite a few of them ;)
My feet were getting sore in my heels, on my way to the car to change shoes, one of the cuties asked me why I am leaving so soon. When I told him my feet were getting sore, he offered to carry me around for a bit That was fun while it lasted, feeling his muscles against my thighs, pressing my cleavage against his head :)
He put me down and continued working. I went to change my shoes. Later in the evening, he was asking me where I am going afterwards. Now, usually when I am out without K, there are many messages between us about the hotties around us. K's messages generally encouraging me to see how far I can go with these guys. But on Friday night K was fast asleep after a long week at work.
Anyway, I commented that normally when I find sexy men like this, my hubby watches us together. The poor guy almost fell over! He was very keen to take me back to his place, but the idea of my hubby watching us scared him!
I told him that if he wants the pleasure of pleasing me, that is the only condition. I left him to think about my proposal - I didn't think anything would actually happen, based on his shocked response.
When he was leaving, he asked if I was going with them to News Cafe to continue the party. He must have put some thought into it, and decided that being watched by K was an exciting idea after all? Alas, by then I was tired, and K was still asleep at home, so I declined.
When I got home, K woke up. As I was telling him about my evening, I noticed that his penis was also waking up ;)
We had some awesome sex, fantasing about what would have happened if I had gone to News Cafe with the sexy waiter....
;)
C
This isn't in the story section, because I want to know if any of you have had similar experiences?

Quote by georgeous
I originally come from the east rand and to be honest the people there are very conservative. Not much in the way of swinging. Since I started with this current job I have decided not to keep quiet about my lifestyle and to speak about it openly. To my surprise a lot of people get intrigued by my experiences. I have even registered to couples on SH. One lady loved my stories that I posted on here and even asked me to write a story for her about her fantasy. I think it depends where you stay that makes the difference.

Quote by Cara
Was away from home for a the company booked me into a real shitty place,,But anyway when having a supper in the bar there was a group of ladies having a ladies night came over to me and asked if I would not mind joining them. Well why not, And they took me to a nice little dance place anyway we all danced till early hours, But one of the ladies got very cuddly and asked me if I would mind coming over to her place. Well that's when the bubble burst and I turned her down and told her that when my wife comes with me next time it would be great. Well to say the least when Mrs C did go back with me all the ladies was very interested to hear our it was the best 4 months we ever stayed in a small town.

Quote by Cara
Was away from home for a the company booked me into a real shitty place,,But anyway when having a supper in the bar there was a group of ladies having a ladies night came over to me and asked if I would not mind joining them. Well why not, And they took me to a nice little dance place anyway we all danced till early hours, But one of the ladies got very cuddly and asked me if I would mind coming over to her place. Well that's when the bubble burst and I turned her down and told her that when my wife comes with me next time it would be great. Well to say the least when Mrs C did go back with me all the ladies was very interested to hear our it was the best 4 months we ever stayed in a small town.

Quote by Stamina
Topless male waiters??? Yuk! Please tell me where this pace is so I can avoid it at all costs! :lol:

Quote by SDMR
Topless male waiters??? Yuk! Please tell me where this pace is so I can avoid it at all costs! :lol:

Quote by SDMR
@KC, reading your experience, I have to sit and wonder just how many times people (that's us) have had something like this happen and we simply interpreted it as "Flirting Fun" and did not take it seriously enough.
How many times did a "situation" just need the tiniest of pushes from "our" side to make it happen . . . .
Yes, I suppose those that have "swinging" experience may not have too many opportunities slip them by, but what about before the so called experience . . . . .

Quote by SDMR
@KC, reading your experience, I have to sit and wonder just how many times people (that's us) have had something like this happen and we simply interpreted it as "Flirting Fun" and did not take it seriously enough.
How many times did a "situation" just need the tiniest of pushes from "our" side to make it happen . . . .
Yes, I suppose those that have "swinging" experience may not have too many opportunities slip them by, but what about before the so called experience . . . . .