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Sexlightened
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First off this is the Mrs from fadnad.

So we put and Ad today and some of the replies we got wer crazy

I don't reply to your msg your profile didn't spark my interest or most of the time you have nothing on you profile no pics nothing

I reply to your msg that does not mean I am going to fuck you it means your profile spark my interest and I want to see more

send me a msg hi saw your ad when can I come suck your pussy or fuck you yes I like dirty talk but you have to warm up the oven first

4. Then this is the reply that got really under my skin so I replied to this single guys profile liked his body and dick pics so we exchanged a few msgs I felt from those msgs he was not someone I was going to play with so before leading him on i told him. his reply was "you just anther stuck up older woman who thinks she is pretty" and the was more but I am sure you can see from that little snippet wer it leads

Ladies and couples and single guys please feel free to share or am I the only feeling like most of the single guys on here are rude and don't know how to attract a ladies attention and think coz you posted a ad that you will fuck anything

An please single guys I am not attacking all of you coz I will agree the is a few genuine fun sexy single guys on sh but these bunch are making bad for you

Forum Virgin
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It is quite sad yes, portrays most “single guy” profiles as bullshitters and timewasters. 🤷🏼

Forum Virgin
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Unfortunately this site is full of guys...no not just guys but people in general trying their luck which unfortunately gives the few decent guys a bad reputation.

Forum Virgin
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Unfortuenately I have noticed how single gents on here interact with ladies/couples in chat rooms and comments on photos/videos, and its something to be ashamed of!

I mean first and foremost a lady should always be treated with respect, that's a non negotiable. 90% of the time it is also the husband who is online and trying to filter out the rude bastards before even moving onto a whats app/telegram chat.

At the end of the day, theres a time to express your sexual desires, but not at part of your introduction message 🤣

Hope you guys manage to find some decent partners in JHB area 😉

Forum Virgin
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I agree with you 100% there mate !

And then you see some of those comments, and the way they act and then they actually have vouches… 😂🤦🏼 Strange world we live in.

Its like that meme where the girl says she likes to cuddle and then after 10min of “cuddling” she wants to be hit with a brick or something 😂😂

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Unfortuenately I have noticed how single gents on here interact with ladies/couples in chat rooms and comments on photos/videos, and its something to be ashamed of!

I mean first and foremost a lady should always be treated with respect, that's a non negotiable. 90% of the time it is also the husband who is online and trying to filter out the rude bastards before even moving onto a whats app/telegram chat.

At the end of the day, theres a time to express your sexual desires, but not at part of your introduction message 🤣

Hope you guys manage to find some decent partners in JHB area 😉

Warming the Bed
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Quote by fadnad

First off this is the Mrs from fadnad.

So we put and Ad today and some of the replies we got wer crazy

I don't reply to your msg your profile didn't spark my interest or most of the time you have nothing on you profile no pics nothing

I reply to your msg that does not mean I am going to fuck you it means your profile spark my interest and I want to see more

send me a msg hi saw your ad when can I come suck your pussy or fuck you yes I like dirty talk but you have to warm up the oven first

4. Then this is the reply that got really under my skin so I replied to this single guys profile liked his body and dick pics so we exchanged a few msgs I felt from those msgs he was not someone I was going to play with so before leading him on i told him. his reply was "you just anther stuck up older woman who thinks she is pretty" and the was more but I am sure you can see from that little snippet wer it leads

Ladies and couples and single guys please feel free to share or am I the only feeling like most of the single guys on here are rude and don't know how to attract a ladies attention and think coz you posted a ad that you will fuck anything

An please single guys I am not attacking all of you coz I will agree the is a few genuine fun sexy single guys on sh but these bunch are making bad for you

9/10 inbox messages we get are along the lines of .......... "just say when and I'll fuck you" or the one we hate the most "I'm in your area now, lets fuck".

Then there's the chat room, where the initial contact is very similar.

For us its easy, when a message of that nature comes in, BLOCK.

But yes @fadnad the quality is lacking, and we wont just isolate single guys, there are a fair amount of couples where a similar approach is taken.

Forum Virgin
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I do see that single guys on here get a bad rap and it makes it difficult for us decent ones.

@Farsin I completely agree that the issue isn't just isolated to single guys but there are also couples on here who simply don't have any manners or common decency when it comes to dealing with people in general.

Warming the Bed
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So you as a single guy want to judge couples 🤣

Warming the Bed
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As a single gentlemen and an avid admirer of profile @fadnad I feel I should add my bit… I am not surprised that an advert from beautiful profile got senseless and mannerless replies. Guys in general here want the most with doing the least and most mens fragile ego’s can’t handle rejection or polite no’s… it’s a sad reality and something that won’t change. I don’t condone such behavior and apologize for my species having no manner or tact, and the only way I know how to make it and or you feel better is to offer a lunch or dinner ( which I might add is long overdue) this weekend. Would clear my schedule for some sushi and an afternoon drink… let me know and we can report back after lol

smile

Your friendly single life style Gent

Flame

Forum Virgin
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Totally agree with @fadnad and most of the replies.

First and foremost a lady should always be treated with respect, that's a non negotiable. Some don't even show respect to the husband either. 90% of the time it is also the husband who is online and trying to filter out the ones that think when they make contact, the ladies legs will open before even moving onto a whats app/telegram chat. @Farsin also correct with the opening messages, "I'm in your area now, lets fuck", can I come fuck your wife.

Respect goes both ways and to all for that matter. After all we all adults, compliments and respect go so much futher.

Some are not like a light switch that you turn on and off when they see a dick.

Just my 2c

Sexlightened
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I can't believe some of the stories I hear. I think some guys are in it for the quick lay but generally don't last very long on SH.

Warming the Bed
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I've become a lurker on the site, thanks to jack@sses who mess around and don't know the first thing about common decency.

But it eventually happens on most "free" sites.

Jack@sses move in, nice decent people move out 🙂

Forum Virgin
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I have meet a few couples on this platform. Whats sad is there alot of single guys that have no respect for a women because they on the site doesn't mean the not a lady. A ladies imagination needs to be sparked and a good conversation is a good start a women needs to know that she going to meet a guy that she comfortable with. Single guys that start by saying let's fuck in first line I bet u they won't last even 2 minutes LOL

Sexlightened
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It is a well known, albeit based on anecdotal evidence, that the clever is indirectly proportional to the horny when it comes to the male of the species, and it appears that some of our gender have a severely disadvantaged initial clever, and as the horny gets more intense the stoopid does too.

It's amazing that having the "Bisexual" label on my profile I am pretty much at the receiving end of this behaviour too...

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It is a well known, albeit based on anecdotal evidence, that the clever is indirectly proportional to the horny when it comes to the male of the species, and it appears that some of our gender have a severely disadvantaged initial clever, and as the horny gets more intense the stoopid does too.

It's amazing that having the "Bisexual" label on my profile I am pretty much at the receiving end of this behaviour too...

You must see what a straight guy gets..... more dick pics that pages in the Zondo Report.

Guys, just do not have respect and manners when it comes to this.

Warming the Bed
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Sorry Fadnad. There are still decent single guys out there. Don't give up on us hahaha

Ps any plans this weekend?

Warming the Bed
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Agree with you. I call them pic collectors and bul shit singles. When you arrange a meeting they didn't even pitch up. Bad manners and arrogant. There is a the good ones but only a few.

Sexlightened
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the 99% are giving the 1% a bad name...

Warming the Bed
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So you as a single guy want to judge couples 🤣

Most definitely. There are some couples here who also have no manners and a lack of respect

Sexlightened
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Most definitely. There are some couples here who also have no manners and a lack of respect

Respect is a two-way street. It is understandable that couples get fed up with the endless drove of blue-balled knuckle-draggers that think "Hey babe, wanna fuck" is a viable line. They should also consider that their defensiveness can be aggressive and hurtful. I have been treated like shit by more than one couple, quite justified from their perspective I'm sure, but for no good reason other than that I was not a couple or a girl...

Warming the Bed
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Look not all single guys are bad we had a few 3some with single guys but we had to filter them as some guys just doesn't have manners and they don't know how to speak to a lady. It's like they think when you are a lady on this site you are cheap and easy it's not the case we are here for the fun and pleasure and the excitement. So advice to some guys think about the way you approach the conversation and do not tell the women how hard you are going to fuck her and what you intend to do to her coz honestly 90% of you can't last 2 min and can not smoke the pipe(All show and no go). Think how would you feel if it was your wife and another man speaks to her in that manner

Warming the Bed
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@jtrdbn true but not all couples are the same as not all single guys are the same

Sexlightened
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Quote by Trysie69

Look not all single guys are bad we had a few 3some with single guys but we had to filter them as some guys just doesn't have manners and they don't know how to speak to a lady. It's like they think when you are a lady on this site you are cheap and easy it's not the case we are here for the fun and pleasure and the excitement. So advice to some guys think about the way you approach the conversation and do not tell the women how hard you are going to fuck her and what you intend to do to her coz honestly 90% of you can't last 2 min and can not smoke the pipe(All show and no go). Think how would you feel if it was your wife and another man speaks to her in that manner

Well put! I think there may be a strong correlation between a rude/arrogant/disrespectful manner and an inability to perform.

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I just get blocked before I even get to the good part 😅

Warming the Bed
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u young buggers have too many hormones raging ...try reading for what couples or ladies are looking for ...block is a great tool for us to weed out the 1000's eedjits!

Forum Virgin
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Get blok but they still look at your profile ones a week. Why blok if you go on and stalk the persone profile or like new pics he ad to his profile. That is a mystery for me

Sexlightened
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Get blok but they still look at your profile ones a week. Why blok if you go on and stalk the persone profile or like new pics he ad to his profile. That is a mystery for me

Dude, if they block me I block them. I got blocked by a couple and the only thing that makes sense is that I posted a status (on my profile, not on a group, forum, their page, or a message) saying I am looking for something that was in their "we will block you if you message us for this" list

Sexlightened
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Quote by grootmnr

Get blok but they still look at your profile ones a week. Why blok if you go on and stalk the persone profile or like new pics he ad to his profile. That is a mystery for me

If anyone blocks you then both profiles are hidden to all parties.

Warming the Bed
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Ok we have been on this site for some time and we have met some stunning gents couples and girls I agree there are a few (60%) that don’t deserve

To be on the site due to the way they speak to each other anyway but let’s be honest it is not just the gents(maybe majority)but I have had some pretty

Horrible replies from couples and single girls on here to me it is simple this is a form for us to communicate with other likeminded individuals and setup

Meet ext. if you don’t wat to be part of this leave if you don’t want to leave it is us as a community to block you and make you leave.

We are here to have real fun !!!!!

Sexlightened
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Ok we have been on this site for some time and we have met some stunning gents couples and girls I agree there are a few (60%) that don’t deserve

To be on the site due to the way they speak to each other anyway but let’s be honest it is not just the gents(maybe majority)but I have had some pretty

Horrible replies from couples and single girls on here to me it is simple this is a form for us to communicate with other likeminded individuals and setup

Meet ext. if you don’t wat to be part of this leave if you don’t want to leave it is us as a community to block you and make you leave.

We are here to have real fun !!!!!

Sir, Ma'am, I salute you.