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I've been on this and other similar sites for some time and have always wondered at the terminology used by members.
Here's a few that really has me scratching my head in complete bafflement:-
"I'm a NORMAL..." - Compared to what...??
"I'm looking for UNCOMPLICATED..." - All relationships are complicated, especially if you are stepping into other people's personal space, especially couples...!! This is a lifestyle, not just a playground...??
"I'm looking for STRAIGHT FORWARD..." - Nothing ever is...!!
And then, there are those remarks like:-
young male looking for submissive older women
come on sexy beautiful woman what u waiting 4
Really funny the things people say with out knowing what *other*people might think about it. Like *upmarket* what the heck is Upmarket?? does it mean cause I do not drive a Mercedes or BMW...I am not upmarket *Must be clean*....ermmmmm what is clean?? does showering 2x day count as clean??? or bathing once a day count as clean?? *sorry only whites*....ermmm I have a olive skin tone, more so when I have tanned,slightly lighter in winter...I am not milky white...does that count me out??? Best one of all *no fatties*......and when you look at the pics.....I am NOT the only fatty men has boepies and bald and really flabby...but lovey is skinny and sexy so what the heck???? *Normal* sheesh my normal is most certainly not someone else`s normal...... uncomplicated...oh boy they have never been in any *other*type of relationship obviously... Just like my NSA is not someone else`s NSA.... Submissive?????? oh boy..... I have to say.. This site is very interesting , people do NOT HAVE a profile ....do the tick off count as a profile?? I would think get sent and asking you to go look see if you are just maybe compatible somewhere... you get there....NO profile at all....not even pics or if there are only of genitals. so how would you know if you have something inn common??
I'm not CRAZY, my REALLITY is just different to your's... :twisted: