Swinging site.

Reading the Fora`s since being back it is interesting,  NOTHING ever really changes.

There is a lot of Fora`s where single males complain, or females complain, same can be said about couples complaining about the singles, whether they are male or female.
NOTHING changes.

What we all seem to forget is the name of this site is a SWINGING site, which means it is a COUPLE site where they meet to exchange partners. 
We as the singles here, even the married or involved people playing as single, should remember that. 
We only fill a portion of the couples needs (and then it ALSO is NOT swinging).As a third partner, BUT never as a swing partner, cause we do not play with them with a partner. 
Some singles DO hook up together as single,WITH the understanding it is to join couples as a *couple*.although they remain single.
Most couples here are NOT looking for a Quicky or just a hook up, well it should not really happen, IT does, I know, I know, What MOST couples try to achieve is hooking up with a few couples with whom they can BOND and form a FRIENDSHIP for the purpose of regularly swapping partners. As what swinging is really standing for! 
Swingers parties is something else again, there is NO bonds or friendships formed, the swapping happens on and by agreement in/at/on that specific moment. Also if it is just the ONE partner going of to have sex, IT IS NOT swinging!
So for my POOR mind:-  Playing with a single is NOT swinging!!!!  
Sharing a man or lady is NOT swinging.  
Singles meeting up other singles is NOT swinging!!! 
A man letting his wife being boinked by someone else is NOT swinging,and vice versa. 
Females/Males going off to have sex without their hubbies and the other wivey is NOT swinging.

SWINGING is WHEN 2 COUPLES swop partners TOGETHER at the same time!!!!

Now to get back to my original though, we as singles, YOU as a couple with *other*needs, say for a third person in your bed, BDSM, for a quicky, even for samesex hookups (gay) whether as a couple or single, or Dogging as STATED and CATERS for EACH of the mentioned ON this SITE  makes this a SEX site! NOT just a swingers site!
We all need respect, being male or female. We need respect if we are a couple or single...It just does not matter WE NEED to remember each and every person on this site should be treated with respect.
I really hope people would read this and say they agree. Sadly the people whom should read this and take it to heart will never do so!

Hier moet ek 110% mee saam stem, maar nou ja daar gaan ook 110% nie saam stem nie. Dit is mos maar 'n feit dat alles nie in graniet geskryf is nie maar deur tyd het elkeen sy eie siening en mening soos dit hom pas. 

Maar swinging het oor tyd baie gedaante verwisselings ondergaan maar wie sal wil erken dat dit deesdae meer gaan oor 'n quickie tussen twee of drie mense. 10 jaar gelede was dit seker die grootste besprekings punt in die forums sowel as die pool waar staan die single persoon in die leefstyl.

Mense het hulle profiele aangepas soos dit hulle pas of 'n nuwe een geskep want dit was gratis. Vandag was hy 'n single man more 'n single vrou en as hy totaal onsuksesvol was het dit verander na couple of partner. Hoeveel mense is nie verras as die date gereel is daag die persoon as 'n single op met die beste verskoning oor die afwesigheid van sy partner.

As 'n Mod in die begin jare van SH was dit seker een van die meeste klagtes dat die partner wat uit gevind het sy of hy word belieg en die ergste was dan het die persoon nog intieme foto's op van sy parner of wederhelf   in sy albums. Weet self van 'n paar gevalle wat is die skeihof ge-eindig het.

Ek wil hier een groot punt uit lig en dit is seker een van die grootste fondamente waarop swinging gebou is en dit is totale eerlikheid. Hierdie is 'n preek vir die wat nie hier lees nie.

LMGA  Ja ek het uitgevind ek moet nou betaal om te skryf op die Fora.......maar dit pla my glad nie, ek betaal graag my dues as ek iets geniet!

Mense kla dis nie `n sex site nie, maar `n swingers site.   Dink weer .......dit is hopelik is die mense wat hier rond flits  almal *open minded* 

Die manne WAT dink hulle kry VERNIET EN vinnig seks hier, maak een helse fout!!!  Hulle sal baie meer en meer vrylik seks op ` DATING site kry glo my!!!!!