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Vionier
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Hi guys, We must admit to having been "lurking" and not actively contributing to the forums allthough we have been reading most of the articles with interest. Now, finally, we have a question. We have been happily married for more than 20 years and have decided to broaden our experience with some soft swinging, exhibisionism and voyeurism. We would love to visit a swingers club, Liza's as it is relatively close, but would like to know what to expect as neither of our personalities allows for being pressured into anything. We would like to experience our "first time" at our own pace. Has anyone been to Liza's? What can we expect? Will we be expected to do anything that we are uncomfortable with? Would love your advice and would appreciate any first stories? Would be great of these ocurred at Liza's. Thanks for hearing us out and hoping to hear from you soon...smile
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Hi, You can go and enjoy your planned evening. YOU will not be pressured to anything you do not like. You can mail/phone the Owners and Hosts(find them on their advertisement) and they will meet you at the door and show you around they might even go as far as to introduce you guys to a few regular people/couples. YOU need not stay with anyone if you want to just go and sit and just relax with a drink, even think of going there for supper?? they do serve food. Dress comfortable but neat, and take with a little ready bag...You can read my forum on what to take to parties but everything I say in there , that detailed is not really that needed the first time you you most likely will not play with other people right away(maybe on a second or third visit) Do hire a little lock up locker and towel if you are going to join in the jacuzzi, now if you are to shy to go naked the first time, you are allowed to wear a swim NOT let any person or people bully you into going naked into the jacuzzi, in case they tell you it is the what makes you feel comfortable and sexy. Include a sexy outfit for the lady(in case she feels okay to want to show more can go and change her outfit as she becomes more relaxed and slightly start to feel naughty. a sarong is nice to take with to drape over her hips after getting out of the jacuzzi. As first timers, make a booking so the Owners and Host know you are coming, you might even get a little discount(JUST maybe) Also try and dress up for the theme Liza`Lounge has for the night you will be going...like the 18th is a *topless night*...great if you feel comfortable wearing a sarong high heels and showing your boobs...or just drape a loose bola over your shoulders if you feel to naked... Now if you want to know more about LL and what people think of it that visited please do click on the swinging clubs found under the entertainment on the left side of your page. Please read *Judax* profiles comments as they are serious swingers all over the world and know what they are talking about. As for single guys they have to be club members and I know they have to book as not to be to overwhelming to the couples who are there. And remember anyone being rude or un-polite towards you and not taking NO for an answer, let the host knows and they will remove the offending person/persons. You can also read more info under the guide to swinging also on your left side of this page. OH people stare, you might feel they are little *cliques*and not open to new people NOT true, they were new once, go and say hi,move on and get to know each other soon you will find a group that you guys feel comfortable with. ENJOY!!!!!!!