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Swing parties and being Pregnant.

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Has anyone ever wondered what happens if a lady becomes pregnant and she is not sure whom the father is ?? A couple joins a play party. They have a few drinks, relax and get horny enough to start playing with each other and soon there is few couples joining and swapping of various partners is happening. The couples do notice a condom or two breaking, but as she cleans up between sexual interludes it is soon forgotten. The couples maybe go for a HIV test the next week JUST to be sure....., and when it shows up negative they relax. The lady herself is not on any contraceptive as they as a couple are trying to have a baby,but also did not think they had to stop any any swinging activity while they try. As the rule says NO condom NO sex..all gents use condoms. A few weeks after the party the lady shows up pregnant. At first they as a couple is happy and elated they are going to have their baby! One afternoon they get invited to a play party by a couple whom they regularly play with, Suddenly the lady and her hubby REMEMBER the broken condoms at the previous play party. Can they be certain the baby is the hubbies??? Do they go for test?? To make certain ? How does the lady feel if her husband demands a test to determine whom the father is?? She does not do tests, believes it is her hubbies baby,gives birth and the baby is most certainly NOT the hubbies. WHAT does a couple do?? And how will you feel when a play partner comes to you and tells you, you are going to be a father or your hubby is the father of her child? Next question.....Is there couples where the lady is already pregnant, they do attend play parties and enjoy sexual exchange with other couples. Will you have sex with this lady? Have never seen these incidents ever happen,so it makes me wonder DOES this ever happen?? What will you do?
PIB never her in a couple case but of two men play with a girl without a condem and she is pregnant
I know paartie, but in a swingers set, up I was wondering aboutthis in a swingers set up. This is a very controversial forum, and I think a too sensitive topic to discuss?? I was hoping to see more females think about this and reply.
Hi PiB, As a couple we did discuss this when we joined this lifestyle. Yeah always using a condom is a must, BUT because it can break I also went back on contraceptives. Hubby has had the 'snip' so we did not use any contraceptives for ourselves, but if I were to get pregnant now it would raise some uncomfortable questions with the family who knows that hubby has had the op. I think as with everything else, maybe this should also be part of things to discuss b4 and during joining this way of having fun.
My wife cant any more but if she had gotten pregnand by another man it would have been OUR baby and very well loved
Well, this tends to bring up the question... do you think termination is an option? Personally we don't want any babies.... so... But then I think this is one of those 'risk' factors that come with swinging and my recommendation is to discuss it before hand, come up with a 'action plan' and 'playing rules' and 'in case of emergency' protocol. Clinics and doctors can prescribe the morning after pill if you have a party and you experience condom breakage.... Might be a good alternative. Truthfully most medical parties will give you the morning after pill if you request a HIV test anyway.
No termination but if you think about it the morning after pill could be an option