We have had a few spammers visit the site, as a matter of course we ban these people, block their IP's and delete any messages that they send out.
So if you have received a message notification and discovered that there's no message its because we have deleted the spam.
Its unfortunate that these people target sites like this, but if you let us know about any spam messages you receive we will deal with them as quickly as we are able, please submit a support ticket http://www.swingingheaven.za.com/support-tickets if anything like this turns up in your mailbox.
Lol, i had two thus far... the one dont know if i should name and shame, will if admin needs me to.
So just a warning to the others...
She started off with small talk (i thought normal) im not on here to meet anyone just to chat so i went with it, then she started giving me a soppy story of how her dad died (im like okay shame) then she said she will make me happy if i send her money to come down to visit me lol, then i told her to F#&k off .
Don't be stupid girls and guys, dont fall for this :bs:
I just got this message today:
HELLO
My name is miss xxxx, i saw your profile today and became intrested
in you,please reply me
on my Email ID( ) so i can give you my
picture and tell you more about me
for you to know whom i am
I get this exact same message (except for the email and name that changes) all the time on other sites.
These are just people who want to steal your email address and sell it to companies.
Don't email people, unless you've got to know them.