I have this habit of comparing situations. I always seem to use examples or happenings to explain or make sense of any situation. I am about to do it again...
Ever noticed how car shops would advertise their stock? Ever noticed that there is always a car or two (or more) on their ads that don't have prices? Or even some that the mileage is not specified? When you go through to the said car shop, then you find the car you saw in the ad is way over priced, or mileage so high the car could have been used to go the moon and back. Or the car may even have a dent and the pic on the ad was taken from the opposite side so the damage is not visible.
This tactic is used as a tool to lure unsuspecting consumers. I think that car dealers believe that we will still go through with the purchase or even purchase another vehicle because we made the effort to go to the dealer. My point is that if fragments of info are missing in the ad, then you can be sure the car dealer is hiding something (or has something to hide).
I compare this to incomplete profiles or profiles without pics. Uploading a pic is as easy 1-2-3. Completing a profile even easier. Selecting which info to provide suggests that there is something to hide. I am sure many of these people (definitely not all) are trying the same tactic as above. They hope that should a meet happen and they are not what was expected, then the prospective"client" will still go through with some hanky panky because they went through all the effort...
My point is: If you tell half truths, it is the same as lies. You will end up being disappointed when a "possible partner" declines you at a meet because he thought you were something else. Complete your profile in full and upload atleast one pic. That way, you won't waste anybody's time and they won't waste yours. And no, a pic of your feet does not count!
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