So now which one are you?

17 May 2013

Well I go with my wife every month to do the monthly groceries and I love it. It is the part of the month I enjoy the most. Because while we are doing shopping, I look at the people. And this is what I have noticed. There are 5 kinds of ladies in the shops at any given time. You get the UPSTAIRS lady which is the following lady. The cloths she has on really compliments her. From her shoes right up to her hair everything is just right. In other words she is hot, But if you really look at her she thinks she is Gods gift to men and the look she gives you could kill you hundreds of times over. So is this lady hot in the end. I think not, as 9 time out of 10 she is the lady that is thinks the road she drives on belongs to her and she can say and do as she likes. This is where I would say beauty is only skin deep! Then you get goods looking ladies. They are the ones that just look good in their cloths and their hair style really compliments them to. They are THE ladies that when you look at them and they look back at you and your eyes happen to lock on each other at the same time, they give you a nice smile at the same time forcing you to give them just as nice smile back. There's ladies are really beautiful. Their beauty is really more than skin deep. They are the ones that make me want to go with my wife to do the monthly groceries. Now there is the shy lady. She is the one that dresses nice, looks good in all aspect, But this ladies don't look anyone in the face, she always looks down at the floor or only at the goods she has packed in to her basket. Why they are like this one can only speculate. Then you get the avarage joe lady. She is the one that really don't give a shit how she looks. She is the one that when you cross eyes with her, she gives you the look of EK GAAN JOU MOER look. Then you get the last group of ladies. They are the one I feel sorry for. They are the ones that make me feel so bad to call myself a man. I am now refering to the lady that walks with her husband and does the monthly groceries. It is that poor lady that gets shouted at in front of everyone. The ones that get humiliated in front of everyone because the husband does not want to really do the groceries shopping. So now which one are you? Joyrider Glad to say I enjoy the month end shopping :twisted: lol

17 May 2013

I also notice the ladies in the shops (I just shop for myself) and I agree with what you say, you get a real variety of ladies in the shops. I like the way you have come up with the name "Upstairs" . . . . I also look at these ladies and wonder if they really do think they are better than others or if it is just me and the way I think about it. I like the ladies that are naturally attractive, and their clothing choice just makes them more appealing.

17 May 2013

Usually when I go shopping I too only look at the products I buy or floor, or simply seem to be looking at you but rude cause I don't greet if I know you, but it's more because I am focused on remembering what I need (yes I made a list, but forgot to bring it!) and wanting to get it as soon as possible and then go home! So maybe how I do it can be seen as shy.....? BUT I think you kinda need to add a group there, one which I more fall into, the MOM with TODLERS..... We're the ones trying to get what we need while trying to keep the monkeys from packing everything we don't need in the basket. And keep them from breaking down the place and ruining those UPSTAIRS ladies shopping experience, you should see the look kids sometimes gets..... We dress as neat as we can, probable won't have had time for make-up though since trying to dress everyone else to get to the car were Dad is waiting to go! (Have couple of times done my hair in the car on the way to the shops lol )

17 May 2013

I would like to think i am the naturally beautiful yet shy, with my hubby (but he likes shopping so noones getting scoulded). Also on occassion its stressfull to do monthly groceries, so sometimes men smile and make advances but im not in the mood. So give them the LOS MY UIT look lol. Most times im my bubbly self men smile and even give me a "hello" sometimes i flirt back but not heavily lol that would be rude.

18 May 2013

No man - shops is for shopping not flirting... I only smile at men I think are being friendly and not lechy. But then in the small towns I shop in, we know most everyone so there aren't a lot of unknown people one just smiles at... mostly its a chat and chance to catch up on news. Also depends where you shop - I imagine someplaces it might be quite dangerous to smile at strange men... plus Matt hates crowds so I don't ever have my muscle with me.... Off to Pick and pay I'll let you guys know if I notice any strange men smiling at me.

18 May 2013

Lee I cannot wait for your answer here Joyrider lol

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18 May 2013

@lee sometimes u see hot men abs, biceps tall tanned and handsome. What am i meant to do most times i go with my sis to the shops. If i see something fine and he notices me, why not! lol. But seriously i dont take it far, but sometimes they want my number (my ring apparently means fokal) or to take my sis and i out. And i swear it was worse when i was preg whats up with that???

19 May 2013

Quote by Sofistikitty
@lee sometimes u see hot men abs, biceps tall tanned and handsome. What am i meant to do most times i go with my sis to the shops. If i see something fine and he notices me, why not! lol.
But seriously i dont take it far, but sometimes they want my number (my ring apparently means fokal) or to take my sis and i out. And i swear it was worse when i was preg whats up with that???

Boys are weird ... :haha:

24 May 2013

Eish, I loose out again no one wants my number EVER!!!!!!!!even if I stand squeezing melons and such.... LOL Nope, I go with my list of what I need,finish and rush home I dislike grocery shopping. So I would fall under the average Joe lady......