What really gets to me about the swinging sites!
The single guys, that are either here to cheat on there wives, girlfriends, life partners! The single that think because we are swingers, the woman can be treated worse than a whore! Comments like wanna fuck, nice p*ssy, or my favourite, the photo of there C*cks, standing over the toilet, and they still have there socks on!!!! WTF with this? Also the fact that single HUMP AND DUMP GUYS, treat woman and couples like a notch on there gunbelt. F*UCK and Forget!!!! It is these men, that ruin it for the few men, that have been in this lifestyle for years, and enjoy all the friends they have made along the way.
Come on guys, read the profiles, and actually understand what swinging is about! Treat all people with respect, and you will be treated with the same respect due to you!
Also read the profiles, use your eyes and your Big Brain, dont read with your loins! When a coupel or single woman says no single males, respect there wishes, this is there lives and there choices!
And stop cheating on your wives!
Paul
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Hey, I understand the annoyance, I get that you don't want cock pics and I get that the filthy one liners are disgusting. The pain in the arse is how to approach couples on this site. I'm a single guy and not cheating on anyone, but when you do contact a couple the usual reply is a f-off.
Many couples seem to choose Single Men in their "interested in" blocks but then get pissed whan actually contacted by one?
Everyone on this site is also not 100% ready to swing, so contacting people to just make tentative friends also happen...
A friendly, sorry, we are not interested in singles reply gets you further than a CANT YOU READ? And leaves everyone happy. Just make sure you have selected the right options on your damn profile!!!
I have only been contacted by one couple on this site, and I respectfully declined contact because they were MUCH older than I am.
See, being nice has never hurt.
It takes NOTHING to be nice and polite to someone,even if that someone is a jerk and gives you awfull oneliner pick ups.
I also agree people tend JUST to read what THEY want to read and still interpert it wrongly.
IF THEY read at all.
I persoanlly think a person whom consider their profile adequit with only the TICK off squares is lazy and not worth knowing.
Everyone should know you sort of sell your self here, by talking about yourself. telling people who and what you are ,what you expect and what you will not what you are looking for.
And if you say thank you ,but no thank you to someone...also give a little positive feed back,that person who took the time to write you is worth at least that.
ALL SINGLE men are NOT the rude one`s.
I find many a couple just as rude, and I also find some couples wants to view your private album with out opening their own to is being a lair and a cheat in my eyes.
Or anyone inviting you to a empty album How is that for cheating???
Nope, singles are not always the culprits here.
hey at least each time we have been contacted we have been polite. to us it coasts nothing to be polite. any one one this site will try their luck a person never know maybe the cpl or person has had a change in hart. pls people just be polite in the answers you get more respect that way.
to the young man that answer saying people are rude pls remember not all of us is rude
@PIB
I agree!
I try my utmost to understand why (and what about) we rant on the Forums. Always about the guys 'mis'-treating the ladies, etc. I've never done that and never will - have huge respect for the capabilities of the (so called) weaker sex - I refuse to use this term.
I do believe that people that get mail - the least you can do is to send a return mail - the way you treat people around you will always come back to you ... in a form you sometimes don't expect!
All the profiles that I studied (avid reader of every Forum) - there are no mention of "Please NO married 'single' ladies!" If there is no mention in the profile or Forum for that matter it must be acceptable!
Who's going to hit the nail right on the head now?
@Gerrie have to agree there!
We used to be as a couple on the site, then due to our own reasons hubby let me change it to single since I love the forum and chatroom banter. We've already made some friends we have fun with and are not really looking to meet up with more for play ate the moment. All this I've put clearly on my profile, along with the fact that I do not play alone.... and so many couples (yes some single dudes also) try to get my attention. And when I look at their profiles they are only intrested in single ladies. So I guess that they simply then did not bother to read my FULL profile, and if I then politely say "thanx for the intrest but...*whatever reason for declining*' some are so rude back!
