Hi Guys
looking to get a feel for the site (not looking to start a war but encourage honest , civil feedback please)
Should single guys (married or otherwise ) bother contacting anyone on this site ? Is anyone here (Couple or female) looking for just a guy to play with or is it just couples seeking couples or couples seeking females ? Most couples choose the tickbox for single male however either ignore you or say differently in their actual ad.
Or is it just married guys playing alone that get ignored ?
Not pointing fingers , blaming or trying to cry foul here. I respect everyone's right and wishes to choose whoever they want. However after many "non responses" I just thought I'd ask an honest question as innocently as possible. What should the single guys be doing to get some game time !!
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Should single guys bother
My veiw on this.... Swinging is mainly about couples since that is how the lifestyle started, used to be called 'wife swopping' wasn't it?
Well initially we did not have any intrest in singles and mentioned it on our profile, later on feeling more comfortable I would contact the odd single. But he had to know it play wasn't immediately if at all! As with couples, we want to meet ppl as friends and if play follows later great! But it should not be expected.
Also, not all singles on the site truly understand the lifestyle and would be beter off on some of the *naai* sites. Also depending on how a dude aproaches me, could have him packking and blocked very fast! (See the post on promiscuity)
Married men playing alone, I just feel that how would I feel if my hubby played around behind my back and I found out about it...so to me that is no no. (And no this is not why I agreed to swing, I had to convince hubby to join!)
Hope it helps.....
To be honest I suspect that your lack of luck has a lot to do with your lack of profile.
Sure, you have one but that is about all. Read ours, it's comprehensive. There just isn't enough in your profile to even form an opinion about you.
When you are half hearted about that, it doesn't give good impression, you just look like all the other guys on here who are really just trawling for free porn.
Put a bit of an intro together, add some body shots to your albums, don't overdo the dick pics.. Usually not hugely popular in great quantities with the ladies. Be a gentleman, be honest, be interesting and be intelligent.
This is not like picking up a chick in a bar, it's more like old-style dating 
Hope this helps
Hope this helps 